"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thundernuts

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Whats going on guys,

About 4 months ago i posted a thread about what to do with a certain female that was blowing me off constantly. When my father went to the hospital this girl didnt even bother to ask me how he was doing.

All this was coming from a girl i had gone out with and got a bj from. She even told me she loved for me awhile.

So anyways to make a long story short she friend zones me and hasnt contacted me in almost 4 months. I got a message on pof from her a little while ago. She says she misses me. thats all.

This girl told me she had cancer and she couldnt be with in a relationship anymore. I was spinnning other plates at the time so i didn't care to much. Now you guys think i should play with her a little bit, lead her on, fvck her, or just politely tell her to get fvcked.

thanks in advance guys.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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skinnyguy

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You're sticking around for a cancer patient who gave you a bj 4 months ago?

smh
 

Thundernuts

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hell no im not sticking around. I've been tlking to other women and have been out on dates this girl just hit me up today and i wanted your guys opinion on wether or not i should make a move or just flat out ignore her.
 

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if you have to ask - the answer is always drop it and move on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dgwizdal

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Neg. No need to play w a girls emotions who's already going through enough faggot. There are less vulnerable vaginas available.
 

skinnyguy

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Purefilth said:
if you have to ask - the answer is always drop it and move on.

haha, couldn't have said it better myself!

Same thing goes for "should I keep pursuing this flake?"
 

Thundernuts

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Lol, i wouldnt be talking about messing with someone who left me because they had cancer. This chick lied about it as an excuse to leave me i left that part out.

Thanks anyways fellas i left it alone. Wasted enough time on this chick last semester anyways.
 
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