"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thundernuts

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Whats going on guys,

About 4 months ago i posted a thread about what to do with a certain female that was blowing me off constantly. When my father went to the hospital this girl didnt even bother to ask me how he was doing.

All this was coming from a girl i had gone out with and got a bj from. She even told me she loved for me awhile.

So anyways to make a long story short she friend zones me and hasnt contacted me in almost 4 months. I got a message on pof from her a little while ago. She says she misses me. thats all.

This girl told me she had cancer and she couldnt be with in a relationship anymore. I was spinnning other plates at the time so i didn't care to much. Now you guys think i should play with her a little bit, lead her on, fvck her, or just politely tell her to get fvcked.

thanks in advance guys.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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skinnyguy

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You're sticking around for a cancer patient who gave you a bj 4 months ago?

smh
 

Thundernuts

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hell no im not sticking around. I've been tlking to other women and have been out on dates this girl just hit me up today and i wanted your guys opinion on wether or not i should make a move or just flat out ignore her.
 

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if you have to ask - the answer is always drop it and move on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dgwizdal

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Neg. No need to play w a girls emotions who's already going through enough faggot. There are less vulnerable vaginas available.
 

skinnyguy

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Purefilth said:
if you have to ask - the answer is always drop it and move on.

haha, couldn't have said it better myself!

Same thing goes for "should I keep pursuing this flake?"
 

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Lol, i wouldnt be talking about messing with someone who left me because they had cancer. This chick lied about it as an excuse to leave me i left that part out.

Thanks anyways fellas i left it alone. Wasted enough time on this chick last semester anyways.
 
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