"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tanning

Colin O'Brien

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I've had a pretty strong Tshirt tan (farmer's tan) for pretty much as long as I can remember and I used to be really self-conscious about it (I still am to a certain extent ><). I want to finally get rid of it this summer, any tips to get the glow in a short amount of time?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MrS

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get in the sun.
 

Gaucho

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San Jose California said:
Tips? You either go to a salon (which is worse for you) or go to the beach. Either way I think tanning is pretty unmanly. That is, if you actually lay out in the sun with the intention of getting your skin tone darker, you're probably a woman.

Don't wear tanning lotion. That stuff gives you a different color and people notice.
Actually, on occassion, I will put tanning lotion/moisturiser on my face, nobody notices it's fake. Infact, people comment on me being out in the sun.

Only use it in winter and very sparingly.
 

Huffman

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Actually I like the farmer's tan... your face looks good, which is probably most important, as do your arms.

But if you insist, go swimming or do whatever sports you do without a shirt. Like badminton, jogging, volleyball, tennis, biking or whatever you want (prolly not hardcore bike-racing though).

P.S.: Tanning lotion is THIS.
 
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