"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tanning

Colin O'Brien

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I've had a pretty strong Tshirt tan (farmer's tan) for pretty much as long as I can remember and I used to be really self-conscious about it (I still am to a certain extent ><). I want to finally get rid of it this summer, any tips to get the glow in a short amount of time?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

MrS

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get in the sun.
 

Gaucho

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San Jose California said:
Tips? You either go to a salon (which is worse for you) or go to the beach. Either way I think tanning is pretty unmanly. That is, if you actually lay out in the sun with the intention of getting your skin tone darker, you're probably a woman.

Don't wear tanning lotion. That stuff gives you a different color and people notice.
Actually, on occassion, I will put tanning lotion/moisturiser on my face, nobody notices it's fake. Infact, people comment on me being out in the sun.

Only use it in winter and very sparingly.
 

Huffman

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Actually I like the farmer's tan... your face looks good, which is probably most important, as do your arms.

But if you insist, go swimming or do whatever sports you do without a shirt. Like badminton, jogging, volleyball, tennis, biking or whatever you want (prolly not hardcore bike-racing though).

P.S.: Tanning lotion is THIS.
 
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