"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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Tall women online?

Zarky

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I do a lot of online dating. This thread is not to discuss the merits of it. If you don't do it, this isn't the thread for you.

I seem to see a ton of taller-than-average chicks online. Now I know that the overall average of beauty online is lower than in clubs and many bars. 2s through 6s mostly, very occasionally a 7, almost never an 8.

Many, many women are 5'8-5'10 online in my area. This is significantly taller than the average height for women. I'm wondering if anyone else has seen this, or if it's just me or my area.

And if so, does this mean that taller women have a harder time finding dates and so have resorted to online? Are all the petite ones snapped up? I know this is all speculation but I'd like to hear your comments if you do online dating or if you have a theory behind this apparent phenomenon.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Poonani Maker

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I think that many of the women who shop at Lane Bryant also do online dating, just abnormally-shaped bodies which you can't see in the pictures they post.
 

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Hello Zarky,
Yes you are right.....Women on the net are generally more intelligent and tend to be Professional,this is the stamping ground of Northern European stock, these Girls also tend to be Taller....In the future this will change as the short but more intelligent and studious Chinese start to assert themselves and develop confidence in On Line Dating.
 

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Zarky said:
And if so, does this mean that taller women have a harder time finding dates and so have resorted to online? Are all the petite ones snapped up? I know this is all speculation but I'd like to hear your comments if you do online dating or if you have a theory behind this apparent phenomenon.
Perhaps the taller women have fewer options in the fact that most women like men that are taller.

I know a guy who's 6'10, and his wife is only 5' and change. Rarely will you see a woman who's 5'10, tall, with a shorter man, or even equal height. So, there's less available men for these women. So, they resort to online dating.

That's my theory. Men don't care the height of women, but women do men. Most women I should say.
 
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