Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Tall & Skinny vs Short & Muscular?

soulforge

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What do most females prefer..

I,m only 5ft7, but have a good build.. big arms and chest, back, legs etc!!

I look like a guy who works out..

But i see some tall skinny guys with some hot looking woman.. do woman really fancy a slim or skinny dude??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anima

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They just like tall guys in general, in my opinion. It just so happens that most guys who are naturally very tall are naturally very skinny.
 

raider87

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I'm a tall, naturally skinny guy myself and numerous women have dissed me for being thin in the past. It used to bother me though because I was still very fit and athletic. I've filled out a bit in the last few years though. However it does bother me how women think they can tell a man he's too thin or too short but if I call a girl too fat i'm a prick.
 

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Be comfortable with what YOU like.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheSplat

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You're thinking about it the wrong way. Girls will look past their preferences for a great experience. Height is the one thing you CANNOT control. It's literally the only thing. Don't sweat it. Focus on being attractive, charming, funny, rich, well traveled, suave, and everything else that you CAN control.
 

Slash Dolo

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You're thinking about it the wrong way. Girls will look past their preferences for a great experience. Height is the one thing you CANNOT control. It's literally the only thing. Don't sweat it. Focus on being attractive, charming, funny, rich, well traveled, suave, and everything else that you CAN control.
I mean, you can control it to an extent. The type of shoe you wear is a big deal in itself; boots will give you an extra inch or so versus a sneaker. I'm 5'8 and got these lifts for my boots that can make me go to 5'11. Kinda like stealth high heels for guys. They're adjustable, and 5'11 is a little uncomfortable, so I roll with them adjusted to where I'm about 5'10. Does it make a difference? Maybe not to women, but it helps me be on eye level with some of my taller friends around 6 foot.
 

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I mean, you can control it to an extent. The type of shoe you wear is a big deal in itself; boots will give you an extra inch or so versus a sneaker. I'm 5'8 and got these lifts for my boots that can make me go to 5'11. Kinda like stealth high heels for guys. They're adjustable, and 5'11 is a little uncomfortable, so I roll with them adjusted to where I'm about 5'10. Does it make a difference? Maybe not to women, but it helps me be on eye level with some of my taller friends around 6 foot.
I'm short and I unfortunately can rarely wear boots because I live in AZ and it's only cold for like 2 months. What do you do if you go back to yours or her place and you take off your boots with lifts? Isn't she like wtf?
 

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I'm short and I unfortunately can rarely wear boots because I live in AZ and it's only cold for like 2 months. What do you do if you go back to yours or her place and you take off your boots with lifts? Isn't she like wtf?
Why would you take off your boots unless you're in bed with her or sitting down? She won't really notice then.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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