"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tall & Skinny vs Short & Muscular?

soulforge

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What do most females prefer..

I,m only 5ft7, but have a good build.. big arms and chest, back, legs etc!!

I look like a guy who works out..

But i see some tall skinny guys with some hot looking woman.. do woman really fancy a slim or skinny dude??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anima

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They just like tall guys in general, in my opinion. It just so happens that most guys who are naturally very tall are naturally very skinny.
 

raider87

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I'm a tall, naturally skinny guy myself and numerous women have dissed me for being thin in the past. It used to bother me though because I was still very fit and athletic. I've filled out a bit in the last few years though. However it does bother me how women think they can tell a man he's too thin or too short but if I call a girl too fat i'm a prick.
 

El Payaso

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Be comfortable with what YOU like.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheSplat

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You're thinking about it the wrong way. Girls will look past their preferences for a great experience. Height is the one thing you CANNOT control. It's literally the only thing. Don't sweat it. Focus on being attractive, charming, funny, rich, well traveled, suave, and everything else that you CAN control.
 

Slash Dolo

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You're thinking about it the wrong way. Girls will look past their preferences for a great experience. Height is the one thing you CANNOT control. It's literally the only thing. Don't sweat it. Focus on being attractive, charming, funny, rich, well traveled, suave, and everything else that you CAN control.
I mean, you can control it to an extent. The type of shoe you wear is a big deal in itself; boots will give you an extra inch or so versus a sneaker. I'm 5'8 and got these lifts for my boots that can make me go to 5'11. Kinda like stealth high heels for guys. They're adjustable, and 5'11 is a little uncomfortable, so I roll with them adjusted to where I'm about 5'10. Does it make a difference? Maybe not to women, but it helps me be on eye level with some of my taller friends around 6 foot.
 

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I mean, you can control it to an extent. The type of shoe you wear is a big deal in itself; boots will give you an extra inch or so versus a sneaker. I'm 5'8 and got these lifts for my boots that can make me go to 5'11. Kinda like stealth high heels for guys. They're adjustable, and 5'11 is a little uncomfortable, so I roll with them adjusted to where I'm about 5'10. Does it make a difference? Maybe not to women, but it helps me be on eye level with some of my taller friends around 6 foot.
I'm short and I unfortunately can rarely wear boots because I live in AZ and it's only cold for like 2 months. What do you do if you go back to yours or her place and you take off your boots with lifts? Isn't she like wtf?
 

Slash Dolo

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I'm short and I unfortunately can rarely wear boots because I live in AZ and it's only cold for like 2 months. What do you do if you go back to yours or her place and you take off your boots with lifts? Isn't she like wtf?
Why would you take off your boots unless you're in bed with her or sitting down? She won't really notice then.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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