"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tall, Hot, Blond, Just got a question or 2.

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So ive finally gotten a date with one of the hottest and most fun women I have met in a while and for one she is single.

One of the main things that stand out is she is tall. Im about 5' 11-12ish and she has to be 6' easy.

Anyway Being tall i love it. She has everything i like and just more of it lol. (fit, slim, legs almost as long as stacy keiblers, great face, fun personality, etc.) but being with her seams a tad aquward since if i put my hand on her shoulder it is kinda like im reaching up. Im the one in the positon to put my head on her sholder not her lol.

So how do you guys in similar situatuons go about this? Not like its a big deal she doesnt seam to mind.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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As a shorty...

... I have been with plenty of girls taller than me. The only rule in this is to never let the girl think you feel in anyway insecure about the fact she is taller.

Basically with girls if you think it a problem they will. If you don't think it an issue she won't.

If she brings it up as a **** test then turn it about on her with some C&F and say that she is too tall.

Surprisingly if you don't act insecure about being shorter than a girl they will generally be insecure about being too tall. If they bring that up just say it turns you on.

JJ
 

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im not insecure about it. Personally i love it for some reason. but im just wondering on how to handel her in a more "where do i fit" sort of way. I will just find out I guess.
 

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Ohhh... Hehe.

Things pretty much fit the same with every girl.

You sometimes need to get a pillow or two when in doggy. (you can get her to lean forward but it is a bit awkward for the girl sometimes.)

I am told that it feels great for the girl to do it standing up with a shorter guy (use your imagination... I'm sure you can visualise it).

There are a couple of other bonuses that you will definately discover... Have fun.

JJ
 

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lol. Im not going that deep into the physical part just yet. Trust me I would love to like the next guy but right now im just wondering how to fit in a more public situation. I can get any gal for sex easier than I thought but im looking for more LTR quality goods here. Finding a fun, stable, sexy, single, woman these days is kinda hard.

I have plenty of ideas to try behind closed doors with a tall woman.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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