"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tall, Hot, Blond, Just got a question or 2.

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So ive finally gotten a date with one of the hottest and most fun women I have met in a while and for one she is single.

One of the main things that stand out is she is tall. Im about 5' 11-12ish and she has to be 6' easy.

Anyway Being tall i love it. She has everything i like and just more of it lol. (fit, slim, legs almost as long as stacy keiblers, great face, fun personality, etc.) but being with her seams a tad aquward since if i put my hand on her shoulder it is kinda like im reaching up. Im the one in the positon to put my head on her sholder not her lol.

So how do you guys in similar situatuons go about this? Not like its a big deal she doesnt seam to mind.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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As a shorty...

... I have been with plenty of girls taller than me. The only rule in this is to never let the girl think you feel in anyway insecure about the fact she is taller.

Basically with girls if you think it a problem they will. If you don't think it an issue she won't.

If she brings it up as a **** test then turn it about on her with some C&F and say that she is too tall.

Surprisingly if you don't act insecure about being shorter than a girl they will generally be insecure about being too tall. If they bring that up just say it turns you on.

JJ
 

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im not insecure about it. Personally i love it for some reason. but im just wondering on how to handel her in a more "where do i fit" sort of way. I will just find out I guess.
 

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Ohhh... Hehe.

Things pretty much fit the same with every girl.

You sometimes need to get a pillow or two when in doggy. (you can get her to lean forward but it is a bit awkward for the girl sometimes.)

I am told that it feels great for the girl to do it standing up with a shorter guy (use your imagination... I'm sure you can visualise it).

There are a couple of other bonuses that you will definately discover... Have fun.

JJ
 

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lol. Im not going that deep into the physical part just yet. Trust me I would love to like the next guy but right now im just wondering how to fit in a more public situation. I can get any gal for sex easier than I thought but im looking for more LTR quality goods here. Finding a fun, stable, sexy, single, woman these days is kinda hard.

I have plenty of ideas to try behind closed doors with a tall woman.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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