"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tall guys seem to get the best-looking chicks

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mahon83050 said:
Obviously, you don't know your height averages. Average male height in the U.S has been 5'9". If 5'7" is considered short (2 deviations from the norm) than 5'11" is considered tall. Besides when I go out, I still look down on 80% of all other men.
One inch in human height does not represent a full statistical standard deviation. I don't know how "smart" you are, but you have no grasp of statistics, since standard deviation is covered in chapter 1.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What women say they want, and what they actually DO, are two different things.

A woman that says she likes tall guys only says this because she has dated shorter/average guys in the past, for the most part. A tall guy is something new to her, so she thinks she desires it. But what does she actually do? Goes out with the next shorter guy that comes along.

My advise is don't worry about height, focus on the ways you can improve yourself.
 

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Furthermore, posts and debates like this are completely pointless.

What you are trying to do is provide a logical reason for the actions of women, who are completely illogical to begin with.

Statistics say women like tall guys, therefore women like tall guys. Seems logical, as we think as men, however, women make absolutely no sense at all when in comes to simple logic.

Throw logic and reason away when dealing with women!!

Use statistics when buying a car, but not when trying to understand the deeper meaning of the age-old question of "what do women really want?"
 

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Mr.Positive said:
Use statistics when buying a car, but not when trying to understand the deeper meaning of the age-old question of "what do women really want?"
*Wild applause*
 

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Mr.Positive said:
Use statistics when buying a car, but not when trying to understand the deeper meaning of the age-old question of "what do women really want?"
You need to watch the movie "what women want" with mel gibson, then you will understand. :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr.Positive said:
What women say they want, and what they actually DO, are two different things.
now that is a brilliant piece of advice.

as for the tall guy thing. people who stand out in general will attract attention. i've known PLENTY of tall guys who couldn't get chics. but you don't notice those guys. however, when a tall guy walks by with a hot chic you do notice him and think 'damn, he got her cuz hes so tall. i wish i was taller.'

but then three tall guys who can't get dates walk by and you don't even notice.

also, anything that makes you stand out will always attract 'someone'. chics with pink hair, tattoos, etc. - someone will always see that glaring differentiator and want to have it on their arm for a while.
 
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