"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tall guys seem to get the best-looking chicks

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mahon83050 said:
Obviously, you don't know your height averages. Average male height in the U.S has been 5'9". If 5'7" is considered short (2 deviations from the norm) than 5'11" is considered tall. Besides when I go out, I still look down on 80% of all other men.
One inch in human height does not represent a full statistical standard deviation. I don't know how "smart" you are, but you have no grasp of statistics, since standard deviation is covered in chapter 1.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What women say they want, and what they actually DO, are two different things.

A woman that says she likes tall guys only says this because she has dated shorter/average guys in the past, for the most part. A tall guy is something new to her, so she thinks she desires it. But what does she actually do? Goes out with the next shorter guy that comes along.

My advise is don't worry about height, focus on the ways you can improve yourself.
 

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Furthermore, posts and debates like this are completely pointless.

What you are trying to do is provide a logical reason for the actions of women, who are completely illogical to begin with.

Statistics say women like tall guys, therefore women like tall guys. Seems logical, as we think as men, however, women make absolutely no sense at all when in comes to simple logic.

Throw logic and reason away when dealing with women!!

Use statistics when buying a car, but not when trying to understand the deeper meaning of the age-old question of "what do women really want?"
 

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Mr.Positive said:
Use statistics when buying a car, but not when trying to understand the deeper meaning of the age-old question of "what do women really want?"
*Wild applause*
 

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Mr.Positive said:
Use statistics when buying a car, but not when trying to understand the deeper meaning of the age-old question of "what do women really want?"
You need to watch the movie "what women want" with mel gibson, then you will understand. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mr.Positive said:
What women say they want, and what they actually DO, are two different things.
now that is a brilliant piece of advice.

as for the tall guy thing. people who stand out in general will attract attention. i've known PLENTY of tall guys who couldn't get chics. but you don't notice those guys. however, when a tall guy walks by with a hot chic you do notice him and think 'damn, he got her cuz hes so tall. i wish i was taller.'

but then three tall guys who can't get dates walk by and you don't even notice.

also, anything that makes you stand out will always attract 'someone'. chics with pink hair, tattoos, etc. - someone will always see that glaring differentiator and want to have it on their arm for a while.
 
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