"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tall guy problems

Thorns

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Hello all, I have been having a very interesting problem lately. I haven't been able to find any tall women lately. I've been with several medium height girls but that still made a variety of things awkward (I'm 6'6" and they're usually between 5'4" and 5'9"). I've learned to use my height to my advantage (stories etc.), but I was hoping that a couple guys here had advice on finding places where tall girls might hang out, or any other advice you might have for my situation.
Thanks in advance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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skirtChaser

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I'm 6.7. I know what you mean, tall women have great legs and are a hot commodity, no too many around, I just go for the short chicks that can stand up and give me head.
 

Thorns

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Ha, yeah that works. Though I think I've got a cinck in my neck from making out with the shorter ones.
 

Maxtro

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Women shouldn't be above 5'8. Sucks to be you :p

If you want tall women you should move to Europe. I think countries like Norway, Sweden and Austria have the highest average height for men and women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Randallpink83

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yeah I'm 6'5 and I'm more attracted to shorter petite girls anyway.


However though, where I live I see alot of beautiful taller girls, and I will say that alot of the taller then average girls will zone out on me... like they are thinking "Oh wow, finally a guy who can handle me!"... so eh... I'm usually still going for the smaller cute girls.
 

Blackmm

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6'2 here. Not really super tall but I get what you guys are getting at. I notice that most chicks fall in the 5'3-5'6 range, more so for Black girls. I too desire someone at least 5'7, so I don't feel like I'm with someones kid sister.
 

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I like the way women just assume tall guys have a huge d!ck, I never let em down either, I think I freak them out with the size of my left nut, its about the size of a green pea.
 

joey2times

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I have the nut discrepancy phenomenon also. My right nut is the size of a marble and sits almost up on my groin. My left nut is the size of a small planet and almost hangs to my knees.

WTF?
 

The Sperminator

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I was listening to love line on the radio yesterday and some guy who called said he was 6'11 and was dating a girl who was 4 foot tall. Damn now thats a problem.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dirtyvibe

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yeah im 6'10 my gf is 4'11. go figure
 

aliasguy

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I'm only 5'9", but I had a thing with this young 6'0" chick about two years ago.

I had never been with a woman that tall. It was ok. Not too different than the shorter ones, really, except for the topographic considerations in bed.

Short, medium, tall. I like 'em all.

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Blackmm

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The Sperminator said:
I was listening to love line on the radio yesterday and some guy who called said he was 6'11 and was dating a girl who was 4 foot tall. Damn now thats a problem.
You were listening to Delilah after dark, weren't you?:D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Answers

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Short girls like tall men better! I'm only 6 ft but even I notice this.

Its Holland that has the tallest people in the world! Strange considering it's overpopulated..
 

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Whats wrong with being tall and dating short? I'm a 6'5 Canadian guy dating a Japanese girl around 4'7. It's kinda funny but we get along great! (Reeeealy great. ^_^)
 

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Damn, with all you giants here you should get a SoSuave basketball team together!

I don't think I've ever seen a guy over about 6'9"... what's in the water where you guys live?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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