"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tall guy problems

Thorns

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Hello all, I have been having a very interesting problem lately. I haven't been able to find any tall women lately. I've been with several medium height girls but that still made a variety of things awkward (I'm 6'6" and they're usually between 5'4" and 5'9"). I've learned to use my height to my advantage (stories etc.), but I was hoping that a couple guys here had advice on finding places where tall girls might hang out, or any other advice you might have for my situation.
Thanks in advance.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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skirtChaser

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I'm 6.7. I know what you mean, tall women have great legs and are a hot commodity, no too many around, I just go for the short chicks that can stand up and give me head.
 

Thorns

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Ha, yeah that works. Though I think I've got a cinck in my neck from making out with the shorter ones.
 

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Women shouldn't be above 5'8. Sucks to be you :p

If you want tall women you should move to Europe. I think countries like Norway, Sweden and Austria have the highest average height for men and women.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Randallpink83

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yeah I'm 6'5 and I'm more attracted to shorter petite girls anyway.


However though, where I live I see alot of beautiful taller girls, and I will say that alot of the taller then average girls will zone out on me... like they are thinking "Oh wow, finally a guy who can handle me!"... so eh... I'm usually still going for the smaller cute girls.
 

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6'2 here. Not really super tall but I get what you guys are getting at. I notice that most chicks fall in the 5'3-5'6 range, more so for Black girls. I too desire someone at least 5'7, so I don't feel like I'm with someones kid sister.
 

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I like the way women just assume tall guys have a huge d!ck, I never let em down either, I think I freak them out with the size of my left nut, its about the size of a green pea.
 

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I have the nut discrepancy phenomenon also. My right nut is the size of a marble and sits almost up on my groin. My left nut is the size of a small planet and almost hangs to my knees.

WTF?
 

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I was listening to love line on the radio yesterday and some guy who called said he was 6'11 and was dating a girl who was 4 foot tall. Damn now thats a problem.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dirtyvibe

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yeah im 6'10 my gf is 4'11. go figure
 

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I'm only 5'9", but I had a thing with this young 6'0" chick about two years ago.

I had never been with a woman that tall. It was ok. Not too different than the shorter ones, really, except for the topographic considerations in bed.

Short, medium, tall. I like 'em all.

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Blackmm

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The Sperminator said:
I was listening to love line on the radio yesterday and some guy who called said he was 6'11 and was dating a girl who was 4 foot tall. Damn now thats a problem.
You were listening to Delilah after dark, weren't you?:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Answers

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Short girls like tall men better! I'm only 6 ft but even I notice this.

Its Holland that has the tallest people in the world! Strange considering it's overpopulated..
 

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Whats wrong with being tall and dating short? I'm a 6'5 Canadian guy dating a Japanese girl around 4'7. It's kinda funny but we get along great! (Reeeealy great. ^_^)
 

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Damn, with all you giants here you should get a SoSuave basketball team together!

I don't think I've ever seen a guy over about 6'9"... what's in the water where you guys live?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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