"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tall and skinny, need help to change!

F!DELITY

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Hi guys,

I am 6ft 5in, 168lbs - 12 stone...

Obviously I am tall and skinny which I dont want to be.

I plan to start bulking up, and I understand diet is a big part of it, but Im a student and not made of money, so I cant afford sh!t loads of beef every day etc.

I do have weights and bench in my garage to do deadlifts...I have a big tub of whey protein...but thats about it...I only really eat one main meal, and a bowl of cereal for breakfast, and usually some junk food in the daytime.

Anyone have any pointers and a sample diet to help me bulk up as I'm a newb to it all?

Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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frenchbeauty

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F!DELITY said:
Hi guys,

I am 6ft 5in, 168lbs - 12 stone...

Obviously I am tall and skinny which I dont want to be.

I plan to start bulking up, and I understand diet is a big part of it, but Im a student and not made of money, so I cant afford sh!t loads of beef every day etc.

I do have weights and bench in my garage to do deadlifts...I have a big tub of whey protein...but thats about it...I only really eat one main meal, and a bowl of cereal for breakfast, and usually some junk food in the daytime.

Anyone have any pointers and a sample diet to help me bulk up as I'm a newb to it all?

Thanks
Hey fidelity,

When it comes to gaining weight, you'll need a diet high in calories/protein.

1g of protein / lb of body mass is a good place to start, might sound like a lot but your body needs it.

You should be shooting for at least 3500 kcal/day. If you budget is tight, 1gallon of milk a day would be money, because it would provide u with 2500 cals. You add a few meals ( beef + pasta/rice ) on top of that and you're good to go. check out stronglifts.com for more info.

The where to start post in the vault will give u a great workout routine.

Take care
 

Cure

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mate, Im also bulking up at the moment, and calories don't have to be expensive, which is a good thing because you will need ALOT.

for example, 500g of value oats, and 2 pints of whole milk, will make a very large ammount of porridge.
That lot will set you back slightly more than a pound per day, and will add a whooping 2500 calories of protein, carbs and fat to your diet. Add fruit and veg and meat/fish and you can pack in a massive ammount of calories quite cheaply.

You need to eat a lot more, and alot more frequently, Id also reccommend eating cleaner, lots of fruit and veg and NO junk food.

Good luck, if in doubt, eat.

Cure
 

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Brown rice,bananas, and potatoes should be your best friends.....NO BUTTER.
 
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I have detailed posts on my blog that explain how nutrition greatly affects muscle gain.

Don't despair, size will come, you just need the knowledge.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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