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Hi guys,

I am 6ft 5in, 168lbs - 12 stone...

Obviously I am tall and skinny which I dont want to be.

I plan to start bulking up, and I understand diet is a big part of it, but Im a student and not made of money, so I cant afford sh!t loads of beef every day etc.

I do have weights and bench in my garage to do deadlifts...I have a big tub of whey protein...but thats about it...I only really eat one main meal, and a bowl of cereal for breakfast, and usually some junk food in the daytime.

Anyone have any pointers and a sample diet to help me bulk up as I'm a newb to it all?

Thanks
 

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F!DELITY said:
Hi guys,

I am 6ft 5in, 168lbs - 12 stone...

Obviously I am tall and skinny which I dont want to be.

I plan to start bulking up, and I understand diet is a big part of it, but Im a student and not made of money, so I cant afford sh!t loads of beef every day etc.

I do have weights and bench in my garage to do deadlifts...I have a big tub of whey protein...but thats about it...I only really eat one main meal, and a bowl of cereal for breakfast, and usually some junk food in the daytime.

Anyone have any pointers and a sample diet to help me bulk up as I'm a newb to it all?

Thanks
Hey fidelity,

When it comes to gaining weight, you'll need a diet high in calories/protein.

1g of protein / lb of body mass is a good place to start, might sound like a lot but your body needs it.

You should be shooting for at least 3500 kcal/day. If you budget is tight, 1gallon of milk a day would be money, because it would provide u with 2500 cals. You add a few meals ( beef + pasta/rice ) on top of that and you're good to go. check out stronglifts.com for more info.

The where to start post in the vault will give u a great workout routine.

Take care
 

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mate, Im also bulking up at the moment, and calories don't have to be expensive, which is a good thing because you will need ALOT.

for example, 500g of value oats, and 2 pints of whole milk, will make a very large ammount of porridge.
That lot will set you back slightly more than a pound per day, and will add a whooping 2500 calories of protein, carbs and fat to your diet. Add fruit and veg and meat/fish and you can pack in a massive ammount of calories quite cheaply.

You need to eat a lot more, and alot more frequently, Id also reccommend eating cleaner, lots of fruit and veg and NO junk food.

Good luck, if in doubt, eat.

Cure
 

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Brown rice,bananas, and potatoes should be your best friends.....NO BUTTER.
 
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I have detailed posts on my blog that explain how nutrition greatly affects muscle gain.

Don't despair, size will come, you just need the knowledge.
 

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