"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Talks about another guy indirectly to you

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Don Juan
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If at a party or whatever and i'm talking to a group of girls or 2+ girls...and one of them asks for a womans opinion if that guy over there is hot or if they blurt out omg he's hot or WHATEVER the case may be. how do you respond?

typically if a girl goes and talks to another guy while i'm talking to her...whether it be someone she knows or a guy interrupting me i'll just walks away...but still be in sight of her and she always comes and finds me...most of the time anyways.

I guess i'm just rambling but the question i really want to ask is...what *mind set* and what *body language* should be portrayed when out of the air other guys are brought in the equation?

another thing is...it might be hard to get a grasp of what i'm talking about if you never have been in the situation.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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