Why they get so hostile and perceive you as a threat, when you bring up topic of number of sex partners and their sexual past in general?It's one of the things which makes them mad in 2 seconds and will try to provoke you for any cost, no matter how reasonable and intelligent conversation will you try to have. What it is all about?Is her sexual past directly connected to her worth and this is why they care about hiding it?Can one use this information to control female and getting her known, where her place is?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Talking with females about s(ex) partners
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No mate. Trying to force conversations about your sexual past when no one else wants to is just creepy.
Maybe you want to just avoid that topic. Unless the girl asks you about it, then it's likely she's interested.
Maybe you want to just avoid that topic. Unless the girl asks you about it, then it's likely she's interested.
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Master Don Juan
Yea why do you care? I guess because I am older it really doesn't matter to me. I don't even know my number but I know I have done some crazy sh!t in my day lol.
I'm in dilemma about this. I don't feel comfortable to settle with a girl for LTR, who had a numerous phucking sprees, possibly done in club toilettes etc... Some say that past doesn't matter, it's about the future,that I'm being too conservative and not a confident, real man. This is mostly said by majority of girls and small groups of guys who phuck a lot (alfas). However, I'm typical beta and I don't like this idea. In my whole student years I banged few girls, mostly in terms of relationship and that's it. No some wild stuff going around, so I expect the same from a girl.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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You are a severely insecure dude - if you believe in the true DJ in yourself, you wouldn't be concerned with her past partners history. You can derive her true nature from her other actions and TIME passed knowing her.
It is your fear that you are not man enough to hold on to her in the long run, so you have to ask about it initially - and this is a form of jealousy and unhealthy possessiveness to come.
If you go to clubs, expect to find trash and take out the garbage afterwards on a regular basis.
Exodus
It is your fear that you are not man enough to hold on to her in the long run, so you have to ask about it initially - and this is a form of jealousy and unhealthy possessiveness to come.
If you go to clubs, expect to find trash and take out the garbage afterwards on a regular basis.
Exodus
Women don't like to be seen as/called sluts, even if she is and she knows it. You asking her about her sex history implies that you think she's a slut no matter how sincere you ask your question, which is why she gets defensive. Even if she does decide to "come clean" about her sex history it won't be accurate, she'll probably say she's only been fvcked by 2 guys. Stop being so insecure, avoid asking personal questions like that and let her actions show you the real her.
I don't get why this topic would come up.
There are thousands of other things to be talking about then before this. We've all been young (and old too), and done stupid crap, gonna be judged for the rest of our lives for that? If you truly click with a person the # of sex partners shouldn't be an issue, and should not be discussed at ALL.
Any girl you meet these days has banged at the very least five guys, so you've gotta learn to at least live with that.
There are thousands of other things to be talking about then before this. We've all been young (and old too), and done stupid crap, gonna be judged for the rest of our lives for that? If you truly click with a person the # of sex partners shouldn't be an issue, and should not be discussed at ALL.
Any girl you meet these days has banged at the very least five guys, so you've gotta learn to at least live with that.