Why they get so hostile and perceive you as a threat, when you bring up topic of number of sex partners and their sexual past in general?It's one of the things which makes them mad in 2 seconds and will try to provoke you for any cost, no matter how reasonable and intelligent conversation will you try to have. What it is all about?Is her sexual past directly connected to her worth and this is why they care about hiding it?Can one use this information to control female and getting her known, where her place is?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Talking with females about s(ex) partners
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No mate. Trying to force conversations about your sexual past when no one else wants to is just creepy.
Maybe you want to just avoid that topic. Unless the girl asks you about it, then it's likely she's interested.
Maybe you want to just avoid that topic. Unless the girl asks you about it, then it's likely she's interested.
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Master Don Juan
Yea why do you care? I guess because I am older it really doesn't matter to me. I don't even know my number but I know I have done some crazy sh!t in my day lol.
I'm in dilemma about this. I don't feel comfortable to settle with a girl for LTR, who had a numerous phucking sprees, possibly done in club toilettes etc... Some say that past doesn't matter, it's about the future,that I'm being too conservative and not a confident, real man. This is mostly said by majority of girls and small groups of guys who phuck a lot (alfas). However, I'm typical beta and I don't like this idea. In my whole student years I banged few girls, mostly in terms of relationship and that's it. No some wild stuff going around, so I expect the same from a girl.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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You are a severely insecure dude - if you believe in the true DJ in yourself, you wouldn't be concerned with her past partners history. You can derive her true nature from her other actions and TIME passed knowing her.
It is your fear that you are not man enough to hold on to her in the long run, so you have to ask about it initially - and this is a form of jealousy and unhealthy possessiveness to come.
If you go to clubs, expect to find trash and take out the garbage afterwards on a regular basis.
Exodus
It is your fear that you are not man enough to hold on to her in the long run, so you have to ask about it initially - and this is a form of jealousy and unhealthy possessiveness to come.
If you go to clubs, expect to find trash and take out the garbage afterwards on a regular basis.
Exodus
Women don't like to be seen as/called sluts, even if she is and she knows it. You asking her about her sex history implies that you think she's a slut no matter how sincere you ask your question, which is why she gets defensive. Even if she does decide to "come clean" about her sex history it won't be accurate, she'll probably say she's only been fvcked by 2 guys. Stop being so insecure, avoid asking personal questions like that and let her actions show you the real her.
I don't get why this topic would come up.
There are thousands of other things to be talking about then before this. We've all been young (and old too), and done stupid crap, gonna be judged for the rest of our lives for that? If you truly click with a person the # of sex partners shouldn't be an issue, and should not be discussed at ALL.
Any girl you meet these days has banged at the very least five guys, so you've gotta learn to at least live with that.
There are thousands of other things to be talking about then before this. We've all been young (and old too), and done stupid crap, gonna be judged for the rest of our lives for that? If you truly click with a person the # of sex partners shouldn't be an issue, and should not be discussed at ALL.
Any girl you meet these days has banged at the very least five guys, so you've gotta learn to at least live with that.