Why they get so hostile and perceive you as a threat, when you bring up topic of number of sex partners and their sexual past in general?It's one of the things which makes them mad in 2 seconds and will try to provoke you for any cost, no matter how reasonable and intelligent conversation will you try to have. What it is all about?Is her sexual past directly connected to her worth and this is why they care about hiding it?Can one use this information to control female and getting her known, where her place is?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Talking with females about s(ex) partners
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
No mate. Trying to force conversations about your sexual past when no one else wants to is just creepy.
Maybe you want to just avoid that topic. Unless the girl asks you about it, then it's likely she's interested.
Maybe you want to just avoid that topic. Unless the girl asks you about it, then it's likely she's interested.
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Master Don Juan
Yea why do you care? I guess because I am older it really doesn't matter to me. I don't even know my number but I know I have done some crazy sh!t in my day lol.
I'm in dilemma about this. I don't feel comfortable to settle with a girl for LTR, who had a numerous phucking sprees, possibly done in club toilettes etc... Some say that past doesn't matter, it's about the future,that I'm being too conservative and not a confident, real man. This is mostly said by majority of girls and small groups of guys who phuck a lot (alfas). However, I'm typical beta and I don't like this idea. In my whole student years I banged few girls, mostly in terms of relationship and that's it. No some wild stuff going around, so I expect the same from a girl.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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You are a severely insecure dude - if you believe in the true DJ in yourself, you wouldn't be concerned with her past partners history. You can derive her true nature from her other actions and TIME passed knowing her.
It is your fear that you are not man enough to hold on to her in the long run, so you have to ask about it initially - and this is a form of jealousy and unhealthy possessiveness to come.
If you go to clubs, expect to find trash and take out the garbage afterwards on a regular basis.
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It is your fear that you are not man enough to hold on to her in the long run, so you have to ask about it initially - and this is a form of jealousy and unhealthy possessiveness to come.
If you go to clubs, expect to find trash and take out the garbage afterwards on a regular basis.
Exodus
Women don't like to be seen as/called sluts, even if she is and she knows it. You asking her about her sex history implies that you think she's a slut no matter how sincere you ask your question, which is why she gets defensive. Even if she does decide to "come clean" about her sex history it won't be accurate, she'll probably say she's only been fvcked by 2 guys. Stop being so insecure, avoid asking personal questions like that and let her actions show you the real her.
I don't get why this topic would come up.
There are thousands of other things to be talking about then before this. We've all been young (and old too), and done stupid crap, gonna be judged for the rest of our lives for that? If you truly click with a person the # of sex partners shouldn't be an issue, and should not be discussed at ALL.
Any girl you meet these days has banged at the very least five guys, so you've gotta learn to at least live with that.
There are thousands of other things to be talking about then before this. We've all been young (and old too), and done stupid crap, gonna be judged for the rest of our lives for that? If you truly click with a person the # of sex partners shouldn't be an issue, and should not be discussed at ALL.
Any girl you meet these days has banged at the very least five guys, so you've gotta learn to at least live with that.