"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Talking to very old friend, need some advice

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Hi,

Ok I know the title sounds very weird but the thing is that I stopped talking to this gorgeous girl like 3 years ago ever since we went to different schools, we used to be friends but well she went to some school and I went to a complete different one, changed mail over the years and totally lost contact of her.
However a friend of mine still talks to her, thru Hi5 and I just noticed that so I really wanna get back in touch with her so my friend told me that he could like arrange a "meeting" just like going out to eat or something (my friend, another girl, this girl and me) but should I message her first over Hi5 and be like: "hey wassup, remember me, bla bla bla bla" or just like "hey,...remember me....." on that very same day?

I know this is hard to understand, was even harder to try to describe lol, but I hope you get the picture.
So what should I do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think you should just have your friend "arrange" a meeting. Its a good way to reestablish contact and you can go from there.
 
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Actually, I would tell your friend to let her know that you'll be there and then gauge her reaction/interest to see if she is excited about the encounter. If she doesn't show up then you know her interest is not there.
 
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tell your friend to not say anything, suprise her. if you are old friends, then she would be happy to see you. Telling her ahead of time, she may just cancel the whole thing. you have to give yourself a chance!!! anything can happen
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thx for the replies guys

But I was thinking, what if I just like get back in touch with her thru like msn, and then pop out in that encounter. Because even if we are old friends I think just "appearing" would be kinda strange, don't you think?
 
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Why? Is she thinking about getting in touch with you? Why not just show up? Why are YOU obligated? She may not even show up!
 
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