"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Talking to her BF on phone while I fvcking her!

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909pua said:
man no one in here should trip because after all, the basis of this forum is to help you get a woman to bed so all other circumstances surrounding that woman shouldn't matter.
I think this forum is focused on getting girls, but there is more to it, and becoming a better person is also one of the draws of this site. And a better man is not measured on how many women he has bedded.

Personally I do think that the original poster is doing the wrong thing, but I am sure that he will find that out in the future, it is not my place to condemn him or anything of the sort.

In the end we learn things when we are ready for it. Hopefully some other people reading this thread might see where the 'moralists' are coming from, and improve that way.

Everyone at their own pace.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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From 'Sienfeld':

George has just slept with a married woman:

George: Oh my god.

Woman: What's wrong?

George: What's wrong? I just committed adultery!

Woman: No you didn't. I did.

George: Oh yeah...

Why is everyone so PO'd at the OP? He wanted sex with a hot girl, that's all. Maybe she should be more open and honest with her BF, but who knows. I don't know them so I won't judge.
 

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bukowski_merit said:
You dont think stuff like this goes down all the time in todays world?
Of course I do.

I just don't think guys coming on a MESSAGE BOARD calling themselves "the badboy lover" are the ones doing it.
 

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Your crossing a fine line by doing girls that are in comitted relationships. I've known a lot of guys that have gotten their a$$ kicked and even put in the hospital for doing that.
 

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trent81 said:
This is a disguisting woman. You are sleeping with a *****. I hope you wrapped up, cause you are not the only one hitting it from behind. Trust me.
very true. its funny how guys think they're so special and the only ones who are doing this. dude trust me, i know, if she's doing this to you, I guarantee she's doing it to others.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FairShake said:
Of course I do.

I just don't think guys coming on a MESSAGE BOARD calling themselves "the badboy lover" are the ones doing it.
that is what im classified as by the community...
there's lovers and providers...
i am a lover type...

i also am not a nce guy or even a medium guy to women... i am a bad guy to them... that's how they see me (dont get this confused with me actually being a bad person outside of my relations with women... my life is pretty normal otherwise....)

believe what you want.... believing i made this up or i dont live this lifestyle is your own choice.

Sandow said:
very true. its funny how guys think they're so special and the only ones who are doing this. dude trust me, i know, if she's doing this to you, I guarantee she's doing it to others.
doing what exactly? because im sure i have said many times that i dont care. i also said i do wrap it up.... and just for peoples info - ive only had sex with 4 different women this year.... the same 4 over and over.... many guys on this board have had at least that over the same 6 month period.

Sandow said:
Your crossing a fine line by doing girls that are in comitted relationships. I've known a lot of guys that have gotten their a$$ kicked and even put in the hospital for doing that.
ive already addressed every issue youve made in both your post. not doing it again.
 

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Reading this thread I found it funny how my feelings changed from disagreeing with the OP to agreeing to disagreeing and so forth.
I was asking myself, 'why's he doing something like this?' to 'well she's the one ****ing and he's enjoying, who wouldn't do it?'

I think it has to do with me myself being in a LTR and hopefully not being cheated on but if I was single I'd most likely do exactly what you're doing.

A tip for you, which you surely already know it's mabye better to hear it from someone else:
"The reasons I'd TRY to get single girls more than girls in relationships for not wanting to hurt someones feelings and for my own safety. It wouldn't be the first time someone has died because of that."
 
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