I have a tip here that I'm going to implement more now than I have before, mainly because I just realized that I've been doing this for quite some time, it's just that I haven't really been conscious of it.
Basically, you know how you are normally very comfortable talking/flirting etc. with a girl who you know is taken, maybe like your friends' GF or something? Well, I've noticed that I don't hold anything back when I talk to these girls, and am pretty loose and the conversation flows.
Well, if that's the way it is for you, then a good way to approach women in general is to treat them all as though they're taken, and just talk to them as though you're flirting with a girl with a BF or something, where you have nothing to lose. It puts you in the right frame of mind, where you aren't afraid to screw up (cause she's "taken", so who cares). It will help with being sort of indifferent. I actually practiced this a few days ago with 2 different girls, who were GFs of friends who I hung out with for the first time. They ate it up, and I was able to talk without any inhibitions or any concern that I may say something offensive or stupid, because I didn't care what a girl with a BF thought about me, she was taken anyways.
Get the picture? Just a good mental exercise.
Basically, you know how you are normally very comfortable talking/flirting etc. with a girl who you know is taken, maybe like your friends' GF or something? Well, I've noticed that I don't hold anything back when I talk to these girls, and am pretty loose and the conversation flows.
Well, if that's the way it is for you, then a good way to approach women in general is to treat them all as though they're taken, and just talk to them as though you're flirting with a girl with a BF or something, where you have nothing to lose. It puts you in the right frame of mind, where you aren't afraid to screw up (cause she's "taken", so who cares). It will help with being sort of indifferent. I actually practiced this a few days ago with 2 different girls, who were GFs of friends who I hung out with for the first time. They ate it up, and I was able to talk without any inhibitions or any concern that I may say something offensive or stupid, because I didn't care what a girl with a BF thought about me, she was taken anyways.
Get the picture? Just a good mental exercise.