"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Talking to a girl with 100% interest

Quiksilver

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Hey, I need to know the best way to talk to a girl who totally wants me to fvck her, without making her feel like a *****.

the backstory: I asked this girl out last year, and she flaked. I don't know whether I was just too unattractive back then, or she was too immature, the point is I asked her out and she bailed. I stopped talking to her altogether, and essentially Next'ed her.

the lead-up: Back in september 06, I was single. I guess her friends told her about me or something, but she started getting all chatty and stuff..You know? Like, she goes to a school like 50 miles away, and she starts talking to me even though I was only an acquaintance even when I asked her out.

Now: So I just broke up with my girlfriend yesterday. I had it listed on facebook and everything that we were dating for awhile, and I took it off when we broke up. The girl that flaked on me actually tried adding my gf on facebook, so I knew there was some interest still. Like, if you were interested in a girl who you knew was going out with somebody, would you try to get to know him?
Anyways, so I broke up with my gf, and today she sends me a txt: "Heyyy its been soo long since ive seen you! Hows it goin?"

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That tells the story basically, and it isn't too hard to see what she's really "saying".

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she's comin back out here in about two weeks, and I wouldn't mind tappin that. I know she wants it, but usually when I talk to a girl about relationships, it's pretty direct and absolute. I don't beat around the bush, more of a direct approach. I just don't want to make this girl feel like a slut by asking when she's coming back and if she wants to "hang out". If anybody has any ideas for a smooth reply or something less direct to make her feel more comfortable, that would be cool.

Any advice?
 

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Rock_Solid

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Quiksilver said:
I just don't want to make this girl feel like a slut by asking when she's coming back and if she wants to "hang out".
Wait...how is asking her to "hang out" making her feel like a slut? That's pretty much how i ask out any girl, it's a very casual way of asking for a date that almost always gets a yes. Trust me, if she's interested in you she will jump at the chance to "hang out".

Also, a little tip for when you go out with her. Don't use a whole lot of C&F on her and don't be too "cool" about it, it will make her feel like you only want her to get laid. It's definitely ok to use some C&F though, just don't overdue it.
 

The Shocker

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Just tell her it's nice to hear from her and that you'd love to meet up with her when she comes to town.

Then wrap it up and be ready, Sarge.
 

oteao99

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Rock_Solid said:
Wait...how is asking her to "hang out" making her feel like a slut? That's pretty much how i ask out any girl, it's a very casual way of asking for a date that almost always gets a yes. Trust me, if she's interested in you she will jump at the chance to "hang out".

Also, a little tip for when you go out with her. Don't use a whole lot of C&F on her and don't be too "cool" about it, it will make her feel like you only want her to get laid. It's definitely ok to use some C&F though, just don't overdue it.
whazts C&F, also what is kino?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SIDEBOARD

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C&F - ****y and Funny = It's like being an insult comic dude.

Kino - Touching or Skin contact

(I cant put any words to describe them wel but I know how to use 'em)
 
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