"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Talking in groups

we all eat food

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This is a big problem for me, like the other day it was me and 3 other guys and two girls at study hall and we were in the library and i had a trouble talking to them, like i was speechless and were all at a table talking, with me just listening pretty much, and its always like that if theres more then one person then me. So do you guys have any advice how to not to be speechless
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Shapoopie

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It's just something you need to learn to overcome. For me, doing date/group activities is tough to ask to go out to because of things that happened in my family while I'm growing up. Hell, I know people would say yes just like that, but I have this unsaid belief where I feel like my family always needs me around for help. But, I just got a license, so I plan on breaking down the wall.
For you, just say anything that pertains to the topic at hand, even stupid stuff. One small step at a time buddy, just one sentence at a time.
 

08aisaac

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I used to be like that because I thought they were better than me. Learn that you are atleast as good as any other person, and you'll become better at talking in groups.
 
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