"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Talking in groups

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we all eat food

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This is a big problem for me, like the other day it was me and 3 other guys and two girls at study hall and we were in the library and i had a trouble talking to them, like i was speechless and were all at a table talking, with me just listening pretty much, and its always like that if theres more then one person then me. So do you guys have any advice how to not to be speechless
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's just something you need to learn to overcome. For me, doing date/group activities is tough to ask to go out to because of things that happened in my family while I'm growing up. Hell, I know people would say yes just like that, but I have this unsaid belief where I feel like my family always needs me around for help. But, I just got a license, so I plan on breaking down the wall.
For you, just say anything that pertains to the topic at hand, even stupid stuff. One small step at a time buddy, just one sentence at a time.
 
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I used to be like that because I thought they were better than me. Learn that you are atleast as good as any other person, and you'll become better at talking in groups.
 
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