Talking about me but not to me

[dk1990S111]

I realize this is small but has me curious. My bday was a few days ago, she doesn’t say anything on fb. That day I go to where she works to deliver paperwork to the guy that works next to her and he tells me happy bday, but I’m not friends with him on fb or anything so only way he’d know it was my bday was if she mentioned it to him.

After he said happy birthday she also says it, I said thank you and left. Just find it weird that she’d mention to him it’s my bday, especially since they have no way of knowing I’ll be stopping by that day.

In the past another one of her coworkers has said “speaking of rich people” being funny when I walked in the door because I’m sure she told him I drive a pretty nice car.

All this after we went out and she stopped talking to me because she was/is still hung up on her ex.

 

[christie]

You must be legendary in her eyes for some reason.

Always be comfortable with people talking about you behind your back. It usually means you affected them strongly and you're in their thoughts.

Hopefully, it will always be positive like discussing a birthday day, as you get older, sometimes it might be negative/hater type stuff.

Still be confident with it.

'what other people think about me is none of my business anyways'

Happy belated b-day.

 

[bat soup]

I realize this is small but has me curious. My bday was a few days ago, she doesn’t say anything on fb. That day I go to where she works to deliver paperwork to the guy that works next to her and he tells me happy bday, but I’m not friends with him on fb or anything so only way he’d know it was my bday was if she mentioned it to him.

After he said happy birthday she also says it, I said thank you and left. Just find it weird that she’d mention to him it’s my bday, especially since they have no way of knowing I’ll be stopping by that day.

In the past another one of her coworkers has said “speaking of rich people” being funny when I walked in the door because I’m sure she told him I drive a pretty nice car.

All this after we went out and she stopped talking to me because she was/is still hung up on her ex.

Probably another attention whoare laying out crumbs.

 

[r4zorsharp]

idk man thats kinda weird lol. theres just so little info here i dont think anyone will be able to help you.

 

[dk1990S111]

You must be legendary in her eyes for some reason.

Always be comfortable with people talking about you behind your back. It usually means you affected them strongly and you're in their thoughts.

Hopefully, it will always be positive like discussing a birthday day, as you get older, sometimes it might be negative/hater type stuff.

Still be confident with it.

'what other people think about me is none of my business anyways'

Happy belated b-day.

thank you lol

doubt I’m legendary in her eyes though. Like I said, she decided to stop talking/seeing eachother because she wanted to try to get back with her ex who she definitely sees as legendary from the fb posts she’s made about him lol

 

[christie]

thank you lol

doubt I’m legendary in her eyes though. Like I said, she decided to stop talking/seeing eachother because she wanted to try to get back with her ex who she definitely sees as legendary from the fb posts she’s made about him lol

ok, its tricky staying connected on social media.

Try to stay busy with a new hobby or interest.

 

[dk1990S111]

ok, its tricky staying connected on social media.

Try to stay busy with a new hobby or interest.

I stay extremely busy haha owning a business makes that easy

 

[christie]

I stay extremely busy haha owning a business makes that easy

nice man, you're like my brother. He just juggled two major clients last month and succeeded and during covid times!!!

I told him I was proud and happy for him when I saw him last weekend

 

[CoandaEffect]

"There is only one thing worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about." - Oscar Wilde.

If she’s talking about you, she’s thinking about you.

 

[derby1]

she is attention whoring to see if you hit her up, so she can reapply you to orbit..

women are jedi masters at this kind of thing.

if you had alpha widowed her she would be stalking you. not talking about you

 

[dk1990S111]

she is attention whoring to see if you hit her up, so she can reapply you to orbit..

women are jedi masters at this kind of thing.

if you had alpha widowed her she would be stalking you. not talking about you

thing is though, she tells him it’s my bday but had no clue I’d be there that day. I think it’s more that she just mentioned it to him and I just so happened to show up for him to say happy bday to me. I don’t think she was trying to attention who re by saying it too.

I do notice that every time she posts something on fb about moving on (from her ex lol), she starts watching my stories and liking posts again. Several times in the past month this has happened. She stops trying to get him back so feels free to do what she wants on fb instead of trying to be a good girl and ignore my posts like it really matters lol

 

[derby1]

she starts watching my stories and liking posts again.

shes doing it to spin your female hamster brain, which is working 100% successfully


however your about to starve that hamster of air

 

[isasda66]

I think its good that she is talking about you. It seems like they say women want Feeeellllzzz. Whether this is positive or negative doesnt matter as you are on her mind as others have said.

But dont say much to her till she directly approaches/initiates. This looks like beta bait. She is testing whether she can control you or not.

 

[Romanemp22]

Is she your gf or what?

 

[dk1990S111]

I think its good that she is talking about you. It seems like they say women want Feeeellllzzz. Whether this is positive or negative doesnt matter as you are on her mind as others have said.

But dont say much to her till she directly approaches/initiates. This looks like beta bait. She is testing whether she can control you or not.

ya just ignoring and definitely not going to reach out first