"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Talkin With Her On The Phone.

DJ HOSSIX

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I Run Into A Lota Tips About Discussions With The Girl On the Phone.

Its Been Said To Only Call The Girl To Schedual A Date.

The Girl Ive Been Spitting Game On Was My Best Friend But Now We Are Nearing Towards An LTR.

It Took About 6-7 Months Coming Out Of The Friend Zone.

So Is Talking With Her On The Phone The Wrong Thing To Do For Increasing My Game.

Eventhough When We Do Talk I Tend To Just Listen And Not Give Much Advice Or Add A Lil C&F To Make Her Laugh. But When She Tells Me Her Problems Should I Try To End The Conversation.

Im Confused About Talking On The Phone With The Girl Your Trying To Hook Up With.

Btw When We Talk I Dont Let It Exceed More Than 30-45 mins.

Mucho Appreciated
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girlsarecrazy

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It's hard to build attraction on the phone. Ask her to come over for a movie or something.
 

Obsidian

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Yeah, phones suck, especially if she's the only one talking. Unless you're married to her/sleeping with her and thus getting along quite well sexually, you should have better things to do than spend time listening to her gab over phone lines. Even if you *don't* have better things to do, pretend like you do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Boschy

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It's easy to exhaust conversation topics on the phone. Save some for when you see her, then you can mix current news and gossip chat with background life stuff. It's also important that when she brings up her problems, that you don't try to solve them unless she asks for advice. Usually women just want to talk to someone who understands.

Hey dude, why are you saying Everything as Proper Nouns, With Capital Letters?
 
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