"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Talkin With Her On The Phone.

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DJ HOSSIX

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I Run Into A Lota Tips About Discussions With The Girl On the Phone.

Its Been Said To Only Call The Girl To Schedual A Date.

The Girl Ive Been Spitting Game On Was My Best Friend But Now We Are Nearing Towards An LTR.

It Took About 6-7 Months Coming Out Of The Friend Zone.

So Is Talking With Her On The Phone The Wrong Thing To Do For Increasing My Game.

Eventhough When We Do Talk I Tend To Just Listen And Not Give Much Advice Or Add A Lil C&F To Make Her Laugh. But When She Tells Me Her Problems Should I Try To End The Conversation.

Im Confused About Talking On The Phone With The Girl Your Trying To Hook Up With.

Btw When We Talk I Dont Let It Exceed More Than 30-45 mins.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girlsarecrazy

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It's hard to build attraction on the phone. Ask her to come over for a movie or something.
 
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Yeah, phones suck, especially if she's the only one talking. Unless you're married to her/sleeping with her and thus getting along quite well sexually, you should have better things to do than spend time listening to her gab over phone lines. Even if you *don't* have better things to do, pretend like you do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Boschy

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It's easy to exhaust conversation topics on the phone. Save some for when you see her, then you can mix current news and gossip chat with background life stuff. It's also important that when she brings up her problems, that you don't try to solve them unless she asks for advice. Usually women just want to talk to someone who understands.

Hey dude, why are you saying Everything as Proper Nouns, With Capital Letters?
 
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