"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Talkin to a girl amongst a group of girls?

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I've been taking some interest for this one girl who I see in my classes from time to time. I wouldn't mind starting up a convo and what not, but she is usually surrounded by her friends. So, I was wondering how I could just talk to her and how to talk to girls who aren't alone in general? Or atleast get their attention to single them out or something.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think about this sometimes.

First of all, approaching a girl amongst her friends already makes you way cool.

The Bible gives all sorts of tips like walking up and saying things like, "Excuse me, ladies, but can I borrow her for a second?" and point to the one you're interested in, but I find that would sound really dumb in situations outside of ones where gaming is expected (like clubs).

If you can think of a plausible reason to get her away from her friends, then go for it ("Hey, I want to show you something I thought you'd like," but then you have to show her something, and it can't be your schlong). Otherwise, just walk up and interact with the group, but make sure you 1.) maintain your presence as a man (don't be around when they're talking about their periods or something) and 2.) project non-verbally which one you're really interested in. Look for eye contact often, especially when she isn't talking. Talk more to her than to the group. See if you can discreetly get her number, and only her number.

I hate it when people giving advice don't get specific enough, so just ask if this is too vague.
 
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Thanks a lot dude. Nah, it's spot on. I just needed a few pointers on how to deal with these situations.
 
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Originally posted by Arioch
I think about this sometimes.

First of all, approaching a girl amongst her friends already makes you way cool.

The Bible gives all sorts of tips like walking up and saying things like, "Excuse me, ladies, but can I borrow her for a second?" and point to the one you're interested in, but I find that would sound really dumb in situations outside of ones where gaming is expected (like clubs).

If you can think of a plausible reason to get her away from her friends, then go for it ("Hey, I want to show you something I thought you'd like," but then you have to show her something, and it can't be your schlong).
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why not ?
 
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