"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Talked to a cute girl earlier...

Rhino22

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Yeah, so let me just say here that I have been labeled very attractive by various females (heard it through the grapevine) and often my friends say things about it. I am painfully shy though. Alot of people can't tell, but I am. I live alone, and spend alot of time alone. I actually don't even have many people to call friends right now.


I have not left the house for a while other than to go to work, so today I went to best buy to look at guitars. Bought a bass guitar and the cashier was this very cute blonde girl (I have a thing for blondes big time). There was alot of eye contact , smiles, between us. I asked her if she played and she told me she did..she asked about me, etc. Then she told me she played country and christian music (not my cup of tea but ok).

We stood there and talked for a while and then her manager came to tell her to do something. I pulled out my receipt...just trying to maybe make my way to getting her number but she goes, "Well thank you" So I said thanks, smiled and left. I feel good about talking to this girl with ease but I wonder if maybe she sensed I was going to try to get her number so she cut the convo? I don't know.


Truth be told, I just found her attractive and thought it was cool that she is a musician too but I hate country music. lol I don't know...should I have tried to get a number or was this just good practice for talking to someone I am attracted to? I actually got a number the other day at my work, but it was under slightly different cirecumstances. Plus she isn't blonde. She's cute, but I only date blondes. Call me crazy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rhino22 said:
Yeah, so let me just say here that I have been labeled very attractive by various females (heard it through the grapevine) and often my friends say things about it. I am painfully shy though. Alot of people can't tell, but I am. I live alone, and spend alot of time alone. I actually don't even have many people to call friends right now.


I have not left the house for a while other than to go to work, so today I went to best buy to look at guitars. Bought a bass guitar and the cashier was this very cute blonde girl (I have a thing for blondes big time). There was alot of eye contact , smiles, between us. I asked her if she played and she told me she did..she asked about me, etc. Then she told me she played country and christian music (not my cup of tea but ok).

We stood there and talked for a while and then her manager came to tell her to do something. I pulled out my receipt...just trying to maybe make my way to getting her number but she goes, "Well thank you" So I said thanks, smiled and left. I feel good about talking to this girl with ease but I wonder if maybe she sensed I was going to try to get her number so she cut the convo? I don't know.


Truth be told, I just found her attractive and thought it was cool that she is a musician too but I hate country music. lol I don't know...should I have tried to get a number or was this just good practice for talking to someone I am attracted to? I actually got a number the other day at my work, but it was under slightly different cirecumstances. Plus she isn't blonde. She's cute, but I only date blondes. Call me crazy.
IMO go back same time in a week or so and buy something else and get her number then lol
 

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Yeah, I should go next Saturday...because she will most likely be working again.
 
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