"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Talked to a cute girl earlier...

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Yeah, so let me just say here that I have been labeled very attractive by various females (heard it through the grapevine) and often my friends say things about it. I am painfully shy though. Alot of people can't tell, but I am. I live alone, and spend alot of time alone. I actually don't even have many people to call friends right now.


I have not left the house for a while other than to go to work, so today I went to best buy to look at guitars. Bought a bass guitar and the cashier was this very cute blonde girl (I have a thing for blondes big time). There was alot of eye contact , smiles, between us. I asked her if she played and she told me she did..she asked about me, etc. Then she told me she played country and christian music (not my cup of tea but ok).

We stood there and talked for a while and then her manager came to tell her to do something. I pulled out my receipt...just trying to maybe make my way to getting her number but she goes, "Well thank you" So I said thanks, smiled and left. I feel good about talking to this girl with ease but I wonder if maybe she sensed I was going to try to get her number so she cut the convo? I don't know.


Truth be told, I just found her attractive and thought it was cool that she is a musician too but I hate country music. lol I don't know...should I have tried to get a number or was this just good practice for talking to someone I am attracted to? I actually got a number the other day at my work, but it was under slightly different cirecumstances. Plus she isn't blonde. She's cute, but I only date blondes. Call me crazy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rhino22 said:
Yeah, so let me just say here that I have been labeled very attractive by various females (heard it through the grapevine) and often my friends say things about it. I am painfully shy though. Alot of people can't tell, but I am. I live alone, and spend alot of time alone. I actually don't even have many people to call friends right now.


I have not left the house for a while other than to go to work, so today I went to best buy to look at guitars. Bought a bass guitar and the cashier was this very cute blonde girl (I have a thing for blondes big time). There was alot of eye contact , smiles, between us. I asked her if she played and she told me she did..she asked about me, etc. Then she told me she played country and christian music (not my cup of tea but ok).

We stood there and talked for a while and then her manager came to tell her to do something. I pulled out my receipt...just trying to maybe make my way to getting her number but she goes, "Well thank you" So I said thanks, smiled and left. I feel good about talking to this girl with ease but I wonder if maybe she sensed I was going to try to get her number so she cut the convo? I don't know.


Truth be told, I just found her attractive and thought it was cool that she is a musician too but I hate country music. lol I don't know...should I have tried to get a number or was this just good practice for talking to someone I am attracted to? I actually got a number the other day at my work, but it was under slightly different cirecumstances. Plus she isn't blonde. She's cute, but I only date blondes. Call me crazy.
IMO go back same time in a week or so and buy something else and get her number then lol
 

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Yeah, I should go next Saturday...because she will most likely be working again.
 
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