"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Talked to a cute girl earlier...

Rhino22

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Yeah, so let me just say here that I have been labeled very attractive by various females (heard it through the grapevine) and often my friends say things about it. I am painfully shy though. Alot of people can't tell, but I am. I live alone, and spend alot of time alone. I actually don't even have many people to call friends right now.


I have not left the house for a while other than to go to work, so today I went to best buy to look at guitars. Bought a bass guitar and the cashier was this very cute blonde girl (I have a thing for blondes big time). There was alot of eye contact , smiles, between us. I asked her if she played and she told me she did..she asked about me, etc. Then she told me she played country and christian music (not my cup of tea but ok).

We stood there and talked for a while and then her manager came to tell her to do something. I pulled out my receipt...just trying to maybe make my way to getting her number but she goes, "Well thank you" So I said thanks, smiled and left. I feel good about talking to this girl with ease but I wonder if maybe she sensed I was going to try to get her number so she cut the convo? I don't know.


Truth be told, I just found her attractive and thought it was cool that she is a musician too but I hate country music. lol I don't know...should I have tried to get a number or was this just good practice for talking to someone I am attracted to? I actually got a number the other day at my work, but it was under slightly different cirecumstances. Plus she isn't blonde. She's cute, but I only date blondes. Call me crazy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rhino22 said:
Yeah, so let me just say here that I have been labeled very attractive by various females (heard it through the grapevine) and often my friends say things about it. I am painfully shy though. Alot of people can't tell, but I am. I live alone, and spend alot of time alone. I actually don't even have many people to call friends right now.


I have not left the house for a while other than to go to work, so today I went to best buy to look at guitars. Bought a bass guitar and the cashier was this very cute blonde girl (I have a thing for blondes big time). There was alot of eye contact , smiles, between us. I asked her if she played and she told me she did..she asked about me, etc. Then she told me she played country and christian music (not my cup of tea but ok).

We stood there and talked for a while and then her manager came to tell her to do something. I pulled out my receipt...just trying to maybe make my way to getting her number but she goes, "Well thank you" So I said thanks, smiled and left. I feel good about talking to this girl with ease but I wonder if maybe she sensed I was going to try to get her number so she cut the convo? I don't know.


Truth be told, I just found her attractive and thought it was cool that she is a musician too but I hate country music. lol I don't know...should I have tried to get a number or was this just good practice for talking to someone I am attracted to? I actually got a number the other day at my work, but it was under slightly different cirecumstances. Plus she isn't blonde. She's cute, but I only date blondes. Call me crazy.
IMO go back same time in a week or so and buy something else and get her number then lol
 

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Yeah, I should go next Saturday...because she will most likely be working again.
 
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