"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So I've been dating this girl now for a month and a half, we're both into each other and it may develop into a LTR. She has made afew references saying "I don't want you talking to other girls" basically is it save to ask to be exclusive or wait? Her friend has asked pulled me to the side a couple times now and said something along the lines "she reallys likes you, how are things going? you're not going to break her heart are you?" I was wondering what the ******** was
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Listen im inexperienced with this stuff, don't mock me....the last girl i dated i fycked up with cause i came on too strong and my last g/f was 4 years ago
 
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can you answer my question about asking to be exclusive, i don't post here much and i would appreciate an honest answer. I know the guy isn't supposed to ask but she drops hints about not talking to other girls. I would really like to make this official because I have feelings for her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why go exclusive when you are already dating her? I think that that's exclusive in itself.

If you think this might turn into a LTR, then let it happen. The key words are 'LONG-TERM', so don't worry your little head about exclusiveness, just keep on motoring.
 
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Why go exclusive when you are already dating her? I think that that's exclusive in itself.

If you think this might turn into a LTR, then let it happen. The key words are 'LONG-TERM', so don't worry your little head about exclusiveness, just keep on motoring.
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I second that. This is definately a case where you should go with the flow.
 
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