"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Talk to yourself...

neobrood

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Try this:

When you are alone in the bathroom, look at the mirror and talk to yourself. SAY ANYTHING!!! Talk stupid stuff or crazy stuff if you want to.

***This sounds crazy but it really works on improving confidence and presenting yourself... and at least givin you an idea on how you look like when you approach people.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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chicksrock

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very right neobrood..

try talking to yourself even more often .....
i talk to myself outloud when driving in the car...!!
hehhehe
 

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Yeah good idea, i agree. Ever found it extreamly weird to watch yourself on a video tape? I find that seeing myself on video is always like 'wow, i look like that? I move like that? I talk like THAT?'.

Good tip - not sure if it will improve how you act or wether it'l just make it even more odd...but looking in the mirror more seems to help in the looks department - perhaps it'l help in the acting department. I would say that acting classes would help more tho...imho.

C-D
 

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i made a tip like this a while ago haha

I said you should IM yourself on AIM, and talk to YOURSELF, as YOURSELF. Not as if you were talking to another person, but just as if you were talking to yourself. It's quite strange.

I can't talk to myself in the mirror, because I mirror people when I talk to them, mirroring myself... I end up just standing there looking in my eyes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dude...

I talk to myself all the time.

I take my shirt off before hopping in the shower, look at myself in the mirror and say something like "Hot damn, you are one sexy mother ****er" or the like :D
 
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I look in the mirror and it shatters..sorry, can't do it.:D
 

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Here's another technique for self observation. At night, before you go to sleep, take 10 minutes to go over your daily events. Play it in your head as a movie and watch yourself in third person. You won't remember much at first but with practice you start seeing yourself engaged in daily activities quite vividley.

Observe your own behaviour and note what you liked about some of the things you did. After 2 or 3 weeks start editing the movie in your head. Cut out the parts you didn't like and insert your own version. This'll fool your subconcious mind real good! :D . If you stick to this method persistantly it can do wonders.
 

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Originally posted by C-Damage
Yeah good idea, i agree. Ever found it extreamly weird to watch yourself on a video tape? I find that seeing myself on video is always like 'wow, i look like that? I move like that? I talk like THAT?'.
I did that while on a very educational 'shroom trip last year at college. My roommate and I would just randomly freak out and run around the room trying to catch butterflies and sh!t, then he licked the wall. It was all good till our posters started to come alive.

Anyway...The point to this is - If you observe yourself, you'll know a lot more about what you're like in the given situation. I myself found out I enjoy the phrase "We can't stop here, this is bat country!" taken from Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas.

And yeah...Talking to yourself can be entertaining, especially on long drives or periods of time when you're the only one around.
 
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