"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
talk to 100 strangers a day
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- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
yeah... this is an EXCELLENT way top boost your confidence and overall, MEET PEOPLE! And like Guitar_Whizz said.. 100 girls a day IS a bit much, but i see what you are saying, and i agree with it 100%... I natrually say "hi" to MOST strangers that i come across, i have been doing so since i started my own bootcamp a while ago... and i just contunied doing it.. Peoplle miught think that just saying 'hi" to random people wont help... hell, thats what I thought too.... but i was wrong.. it DOES do a hell of a lot for your confidence levels, and it makes you more sociable too. So yes, this is a good thing to do, and i would suggest that everyone does this on a regular basis...
Laterz...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Its not about the conversation.. its about the confidence it gives YOU.. its not like your going to ask them out
And if they DO happen to be a HB and has some good conversational skills, then i'll make an effort to get her number and make plans with her in the near futureIce Cold said:
its called a cellphone
PM me to get my postal address for when u send me that 6 pack
Laterz...