Rhoto
Master Don Juan
And you're talking to a near daily. =)wolf116 said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Taking valium to reduced AA
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Of course . I didnt meant that anyone who suffers from anxiety or something else should kill yourself . Of course women are not the most important thing in our life . We also should focus on other hobbies and other things .wolf116 said:
I said that because i know that anyone can control his body .
And everyone should try to do something that its scared of .
Everyone should step out of his comfort zone .
You think its easy for me ? Sometimes i shake . But i still do it . I FORCE myself to do it . I push myself to do it .
I started getting out of comfort zone about 3 years before . I went to every big market full of people and every pharmacy asking for condoms , for tiny condoms , for XXL condoms . Than i fought people to step out of my comfort zone . I used to shake when someone got in my face . But i step out of comfort and fight them back . I used and i still wear some peacock items ( big ass necklaces made by me , big hats etc ) .
Im trying to tell that dude the best way to defeat his anxietys . Im telling what worked for me . And what worked for people that are KING OF CONFIDENCE .
Of course im not telling people to go kill themselves for fvcking AA or something related to women or any kind of thing . Life is full of things . If you're not good in one , you can become good . If you cant , there are going to be a lot of things that you are good at them .
connor32 said:
Why are there morons like you that dont look in the deep meaning of life ?
Why are there morons like you that only live in surface of life ?
Why are there morons like you that are ready to got in someones d1ck without listening and understanding well what they said ?
darkme_legendary
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The key is to change your beliefs and emotions.
Find next exercises that are doing just that and apply them.
Find next exercises that are doing just that and apply them.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why are there morons like you that dont look in the deep meaning of life ?
Why are there morons like you that only live in surface of life ?
Why are there morons like you that are ready to got in someones d1ck without listening and understanding well what they said ?[/QUOTE]
you told someone with anxiety problems to kill himself. we were all supposed to assume that by "kill yourself" you meant something deeper and clever? give me a fvkin break!
Why are there morons like you that only live in surface of life ?
Why are there morons like you that are ready to got in someones d1ck without listening and understanding well what they said ?[/QUOTE]
you told someone with anxiety problems to kill himself. we were all supposed to assume that by "kill yourself" you meant something deeper and clever? give me a fvkin break!
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
eko said:
Good catch sir.House party's are my thing. My friends will introduce me to their friends and it goes from there. They will either tell me straight up that they want to bunk with me or they will tell my friend that they like me or ask me to dance or I ask if they want to smoke a joint with me. Sometimes I even get the balls to ask for their number if high interest is obvious.traffic said:
Being in top shape helps.
But I still feel pathetic for having this unresolved fear.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The problem with your method is that you're not in control. You have to rely on friends to hook you up. What if you see an hb9 who does not have any common acquaintances with you? Do you just give up and think it's hopeless to meet her because no one will introduce you?wolf116 said:
Trust me. It's better to be able to approach them without needing anything other than yourself and your charm. If you get shot down at least you'll feel good about trying and it will be easier the next time.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
If it's truly stress/anxiety and panic attacks, look into the work of Lucinda Bassett. She has a good program on how to deal with these issues directly. Here's a link to a self assessment which may give you a bit more insght into some of the challenges you may have.jdawgmcb said:
http://www.stresscenter.com/self_test/test.php
It would probably help if you use it properly. Take the least amount necessary and treat it like resistance training and force your self out of your comfort zone slowly. Might want to do the boot camp with it. Make sure you are using it as a tool and not a crutch.