Rhoto
Master Don Juan
And you're talking to a near daily. =)wolf116 said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Taking valium to reduced AA
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Of course . I didnt meant that anyone who suffers from anxiety or something else should kill yourself . Of course women are not the most important thing in our life . We also should focus on other hobbies and other things .wolf116 said:
I said that because i know that anyone can control his body .
And everyone should try to do something that its scared of .
Everyone should step out of his comfort zone .
You think its easy for me ? Sometimes i shake . But i still do it . I FORCE myself to do it . I push myself to do it .
I started getting out of comfort zone about 3 years before . I went to every big market full of people and every pharmacy asking for condoms , for tiny condoms , for XXL condoms . Than i fought people to step out of my comfort zone . I used to shake when someone got in my face . But i step out of comfort and fight them back . I used and i still wear some peacock items ( big ass necklaces made by me , big hats etc ) .
Im trying to tell that dude the best way to defeat his anxietys . Im telling what worked for me . And what worked for people that are KING OF CONFIDENCE .
Of course im not telling people to go kill themselves for fvcking AA or something related to women or any kind of thing . Life is full of things . If you're not good in one , you can become good . If you cant , there are going to be a lot of things that you are good at them .
connor32 said:
Why are there morons like you that dont look in the deep meaning of life ?
Why are there morons like you that only live in surface of life ?
Why are there morons like you that are ready to got in someones d1ck without listening and understanding well what they said ?
darkme_legendary
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The key is to change your beliefs and emotions.
Find next exercises that are doing just that and apply them.
Find next exercises that are doing just that and apply them.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why are there morons like you that dont look in the deep meaning of life ?
Why are there morons like you that only live in surface of life ?
Why are there morons like you that are ready to got in someones d1ck without listening and understanding well what they said ?[/QUOTE]
you told someone with anxiety problems to kill himself. we were all supposed to assume that by "kill yourself" you meant something deeper and clever? give me a fvkin break!
Why are there morons like you that only live in surface of life ?
Why are there morons like you that are ready to got in someones d1ck without listening and understanding well what they said ?[/QUOTE]
you told someone with anxiety problems to kill himself. we were all supposed to assume that by "kill yourself" you meant something deeper and clever? give me a fvkin break!
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
eko said:
Good catch sir.House party's are my thing. My friends will introduce me to their friends and it goes from there. They will either tell me straight up that they want to bunk with me or they will tell my friend that they like me or ask me to dance or I ask if they want to smoke a joint with me. Sometimes I even get the balls to ask for their number if high interest is obvious.traffic said:
Being in top shape helps.
But I still feel pathetic for having this unresolved fear.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The problem with your method is that you're not in control. You have to rely on friends to hook you up. What if you see an hb9 who does not have any common acquaintances with you? Do you just give up and think it's hopeless to meet her because no one will introduce you?wolf116 said:
Trust me. It's better to be able to approach them without needing anything other than yourself and your charm. If you get shot down at least you'll feel good about trying and it will be easier the next time.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
If it's truly stress/anxiety and panic attacks, look into the work of Lucinda Bassett. She has a good program on how to deal with these issues directly. Here's a link to a self assessment which may give you a bit more insght into some of the challenges you may have.jdawgmcb said:
http://www.stresscenter.com/self_test/test.php
It would probably help if you use it properly. Take the least amount necessary and treat it like resistance training and force your self out of your comfort zone slowly. Might want to do the boot camp with it. Make sure you are using it as a tool and not a crutch.