"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Taking up all opportunities whether shes good or average looking....

SuperChillies

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I don't take up on a lot of EC's for this reason....

When I see a hot girl giving me EC, I am there asap...

when I see an average -okay girl giving me EC, i am lazy don't approach with effort...

thats understandable...but I am thinking for a Newbie like me i should lower my standards a bit so that at least I get some play ...

hey pzzy is puzzy ..why do y0u need to aim for perfection so much....at least your having some thing ?

rather than waiting for a super hot chick....so I am thinking of a actually starting to approach these lower standard chicks..

they aren't ugly or ...they are just average / 6-8 HB....but for me I am the type who used to only get intersted enough to approach a girl if she HB 9+ or HB 10..

I am basically talking about forcing to approach every opportunity..good looking or bad who cares at least I am not alone...and maybe one day I will get a super HB

what are you feelings on that....?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SuperChillies said:
I don't take up on a lot of EC's for this reason....

When I see a hot girl giving me EC, I am there asap...

when I see an average -okay girl giving me EC, i am lazy don't approach with effort...

thats understandable...but I am thinking for a Newbie like me i should lower my standards a bit so that at least I get some play ...

hey pzzy is puzzy ..why do y0u need to aim for perfection so much....at least your having some thing ?

rather than waiting for a super hot chick....so I am thinking of a actually starting to approach these lower standard chicks..

they aren't ugly or ...they are just average / 6-8 HB....but for me I am the type who used to only get intersted enough to approach a girl if she HB 9+ or HB 10..

I am basically talking about forcing to approach every opportunity..good looking or bad who cares at least I am not alone...and maybe one day I will get a super HB

what are you feelings on that....?
Only problem is.....If things go wrong...ie...pregnancy or std....You COMPLETELY wasted your time. Not only did you mess with a girl you weren't attracted to ... but you got screwed over as well. Just something to think about before you lower your standards.
In summary: DON'T LOWER YOUR STANDARDS. Don't approach women you aren't attracted to. It wastes everybody's time.
 

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rakishness said:
Only problem is.....If things go wrong...ie...pregnancy or std....You COMPLETELY wasted your time. Not only did you mess with a girl you weren't attracted to ... but you got screwed over as well. Just something to think about before you lower your standards.
In summary: DON'T LOWER YOUR STANDARDS. Don't approach women you aren't attracted to. It wastes everybody's time.
I think you missed the point.

First, he didn't say he's going to have sex with UGs or anything, just that he'll approach them.

Second, he's not saying he'll lower his standards per se--the girls are still "attractive" to him. It's just that instead of only approaching the "holy crap she's so hot" girls, he'll also approach the "hey, that girl's pretty cute" girls. They are still attractive, they're just not SHBs.

Third, while I see your point about not approaching women you're not attracted to, I think it has a certain value for "training." Instead of crashing and burning with hot women, one can work his way up to those hot women by starting with average/less attractive ones.
 

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Fred Da Head said:
I think you missed the point.

First, he didn't say he's going to have sex with UGs or anything, just that he'll approach them.

Second, he's not saying he'll lower his standards per se--the girls are still "attractive" to him. It's just that instead of only approaching the "holy crap she's so hot" girls, he'll also approach the "hey, that girl's pretty cute" girls. They are still attractive, they're just not SHBs.

Third, while I see your point about not approaching women you're not attracted to, I think it has a certain value for "training." Instead of crashing and burning with hot women, one can work his way up to those hot women by starting with average/less attractive ones.

thanks fred , work on these girls now and work my way up to the HB, the thing is I am Brown so I tend to only attractive other Brown or black girls..hehe guess thats not so bad. I am like the king of the brown people though...
 
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