"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Taking this physical (neighbor hits me up on myspace?!)

Circa

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It's kind of funny, because I just got done promising myself I would never date a younger chick. Mainly freshman. I just recently broke up with a freshman (I'm a junior) because she was too stupid and immature for me.

But anyway.. I should probably rewind a little. Not too long ago, a friend of mine told me her sister said that I was hott. She suppousedly lived next door to me. I could recall seeing her a few times, but I knew she was extremely young (in 8th grade, I'm in 11th :\) plus I didn't think she was that good looking (even though I never got a good luck at her). Then one day I am outside skating.. and this gorgeous girl starts walking down the street.. beautiful black hair.. nice ass, decent tits.. and completely my style. And what do you know? it's my neighbor! I couldn't pass it up, so I went up to her and started talking to her. I opened with "hey, you're so and so's sister right?" and we started talking, and I asked for her name and then she went on her way and I continued skating. nothing really happened after that.

then just recently she added me on myspace. and we started talking. i started negging her a little bit. we dont talk everyday, but we talk every other day or so. sometimes she initiates it, sometimes i do. we seem to have fun talking to each other.. but. i find the whole situation really awkward. this girl is my next door neighbor.. i mean seriously.. lives RIGHT NEXT DOOR. you can probably see the benefits... but also the disadvantages of it as well... im not sure how i should go about this. i kind of want to hang out with her... but like... just going over there one day that would be really weird.. lol like inviting myself. and inviting her over would be kinda weird too? and also the fact of even asking for her number seems weird to me... like why ask for your neighbors number? i dont understand. lol. im thinking the next time i am doing something even if it is with a group of friends i could invite her along. especially if her sister is gonna be there, so she wont feel as akward about it? or is this a bad idea? i don't want ot get stuck in the "friend zone" but she seems kind of interested right now... but im not sure how I should escalate this.. maybe I am just being too scared? or maybe i am just afraid of the fact she is soo young... but I am pretty confused right now.

what would you guys do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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man not everyones that lucky.

why not just plan something with your friends... then during the day, walk over to her house and ask if she wants to tag along.

well try walking by her window and hope shes naked... and get a camera... and running shoes... take some pictures... run like hell... then upload here.
 

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Does she know you live next door?, If so GET OFF that wack My Space site and knock on her door and ask her if she would like go out for coffee or whatever, when you meet people on My Space you create a fantasy in your head about that person but if she is next door you don't need too... go and see her, either it works or it doesn't..at least you tried.
 

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LOL coffee? 8th graders DO NOT drink coffee...lol Invite her to Chucky Cheese's and she would be thrilled..lol. I'm serious.
 

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ryannath said:
LOL coffee? 8th graders DO NOT drink coffee...lol Invite her to Chucky Cheese's and she would be thrilled..lol. I'm serious.

I forgot about the 8th Grader thing... I thought kids drink coffee when they are young.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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