"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Taking things too far

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What are some ideas that come to mind when a person tells you, after you F'ed up that you took things too far?
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Did you think of what you did wrong?
You were playing around too much?
Were you being too serious?
Did you test their patience?
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Did you think of what was missing?
Did they think you were too serious, because you weren't funny?
Did they think you were playing around too much, because you weren't passionate?
Did you test their patience, by not giving them a chance to feel your vibe?
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In life there is always balance, but balance is hard to achieve. When should a person stop thinking and wondering, and actually do something?

I've gotten the "you took things too far" comment a lot in my game, and I never realized what I was doing, until it was too late. Kind of like subconcious patterned behaviour, things I do that are natural to me.
 

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I would think that i don't give a fvck and move on.If i feel i didn't do anything wrong then it's their problem.
 
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It happens because people think I am WEIRD

I drill for a reason as to why they think I am weird, and I don't even stop at their third answer, I want a brutally honest reason. In 90% of the cases it's because I took something too far.
 
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Well i only had a couple of those cases,but i don't see it as me taking it too far,but them not being able to handle that much.
 
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