"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Taking things too far

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What are some ideas that come to mind when a person tells you, after you F'ed up that you took things too far?
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Did you think of what you did wrong?
You were playing around too much?
Were you being too serious?
Did you test their patience?
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Did you think of what was missing?
Did they think you were too serious, because you weren't funny?
Did they think you were playing around too much, because you weren't passionate?
Did you test their patience, by not giving them a chance to feel your vibe?
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In life there is always balance, but balance is hard to achieve. When should a person stop thinking and wondering, and actually do something?

I've gotten the "you took things too far" comment a lot in my game, and I never realized what I was doing, until it was too late. Kind of like subconcious patterned behaviour, things I do that are natural to me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GloriouslyInsane

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I would think that i don't give a fvck and move on.If i feel i didn't do anything wrong then it's their problem.
 
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It happens because people think I am WEIRD

I drill for a reason as to why they think I am weird, and I don't even stop at their third answer, I want a brutally honest reason. In 90% of the cases it's because I took something too far.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Well i only had a couple of those cases,but i don't see it as me taking it too far,but them not being able to handle that much.
 
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