Ken785
Master Don Juan
does "popping her cherry" mean taking her virginity or something more?? i never got that saying...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Taking someones virginity
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
Why do you want to beat them up, what have they done to you and why do you care about what other people do?
I personally respect those that want to save themselves specially girls. We live in a world where stds are everywhere, aids is killing millions, and girls are dirtier than ever. Saving yourself till marriage is the safest way to go. You can always have dozens of girlfriends/make out with them but just not go to third base and risk getting stds.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Bang her. Why not?
Keeper
Master Don Juan
Sheesh...
This is so un-Don Juanish.
If you want this girl: Bonk her... if you don't: don't.
Don't let her dominate your state of mind. LoL. Otherwise you turn back into that AFC.
This is so un-Don Juanish.
If you want this girl: Bonk her... if you don't: don't.Don't let her dominate your state of mind. LoL. Otherwise you turn back into that AFC.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Giuseppe Notte
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Taking a girl's virginity is a big responsibility. Afterwards, she will be emotionally attached to you. If you leave her soon, you can hurt her big time and mess up her life.
If you like her and you think you would mess with her for a few months, do it. If you would leave her quickly, better leave her alone.
If you like her and you think you would mess with her for a few months, do it. If you would leave her quickly, better leave her alone.
its just loosing your virginity, big whoopy dooha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If her life is gonna be messed up just cause she lost her virginity to a guy that doesnt like her, then thats her own fault... F*CK them! If she wants you, and you want her, DONT hesitate! If she wants to get attached, then keep her around as a f*ck-buddy, but other than that, f*ck her, do what you want, one's virginity is over-rated!
if u bang her, prior to actually doing it u have to be very honest to her and make it clear that u just wanna get laid (not using this words of course), u feel attracted to her but i don't see anything more then the sex itself
if shes ok with that
rip her eyes out and spank that monkey
if shes not
leave her alone
of course), u feel attracted to her but i don't see anything more then the sex itselfif shes ok with that
rip her eyes out and spank that monkey
if shes not
leave her alone
Giuseppe Notte
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Good advice arq-dj1! I agree with you.
Sex for women is a much bigger decision. They are letting you "into" themselves. They don't only need to open up physically, but emotionally as well.
This whole thing is an issue of morals. Do what you feel is the best. Don't listen to us.
No it's not... If you really know women, you also know that they are built this way.
Sex for women is a much bigger decision. They are letting you "into" themselves. They don't only need to open up physically, but emotionally as well.
This whole thing is an issue of morals. Do what you feel is the best. Don't listen to us.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ What about a good 40 - 50% of the girls at my college who would f*** several different guys every couple of months or so? Are they built this way? Is sex really a big decision for them? These chicks have literally been all over the place. I say f*** this virgin but if you harm her emotionally you should take responsibilty for it. Who knows? She might even hit #55 by the time she's ready to get married. But that wouldn't be your problem then.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
WeakMenNeverRise
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It seems like the consensus is that I should bang her. I was thinking about doing that but then the other day she was saying I don't want my first time to be with a condom and then she starts trippin, BIG TIME. She was like, well what would you do if we had sex and I got pregnant. I was like WTF. She said it like she had been thinking about that. A true player, when it comes to females, looks after one person, and thats himself. Weighing the cost and the rewards, puzzy is abundant and I this chick will either go psycho on me or even worse set me up for the okeydoke. Fellas, if you ever in this situation don't do it, it aint worth it. Matter of fact, this is her azz calling me right now for like the 4th time in two days. And she calls from numbers that she thinks I won't recognize. This is gettin rediculous.
what now...
And about her calling all the time etc.... why dont u just go with it, and keep her around as a f*ck-buddy? If you dont want that, then just TELL HER that u are not interested anymore and that she must stop contacting you.
You have to be straight with women sometimes, this being one of those times!
Laterz...
What you need to do is simple... You need to tell her that if she wants to have sex with you, then you WILL wear a condom... and if she has a problem with that, then she can go find some other idiot that would agree to doing something so stupid. Its as simple as that... and if she wants you THAT bad, she will agree to the condom, and your problem will be solved.
And about her calling all the time etc.... why dont u just go with it, and keep her around as a f*ck-buddy?
If you dont want that, then just TELL HER that u are not interested anymore and that she must stop contacting you. You have to be straight with women sometimes, this being one of those times!
Laterz...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.