Ken785
Master Don Juan
does "popping her cherry" mean taking her virginity or something more?? i never got that saying...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Taking someones virginity
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
Why do you want to beat them up, what have they done to you and why do you care about what other people do?
I personally respect those that want to save themselves specially girls. We live in a world where stds are everywhere, aids is killing millions, and girls are dirtier than ever. Saving yourself till marriage is the safest way to go. You can always have dozens of girlfriends/make out with them but just not go to third base and risk getting stds.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Bang her. Why not?
Keeper
Master Don Juan
Sheesh...
This is so un-Don Juanish.
If you want this girl: Bonk her... if you don't: don't.
Don't let her dominate your state of mind. LoL. Otherwise you turn back into that AFC.
This is so un-Don Juanish.
If you want this girl: Bonk her... if you don't: don't.Don't let her dominate your state of mind. LoL. Otherwise you turn back into that AFC.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Giuseppe Notte
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Taking a girl's virginity is a big responsibility. Afterwards, she will be emotionally attached to you. If you leave her soon, you can hurt her big time and mess up her life.
If you like her and you think you would mess with her for a few months, do it. If you would leave her quickly, better leave her alone.
If you like her and you think you would mess with her for a few months, do it. If you would leave her quickly, better leave her alone.
its just loosing your virginity, big whoopy dooha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If her life is gonna be messed up just cause she lost her virginity to a guy that doesnt like her, then thats her own fault... F*CK them! If she wants you, and you want her, DONT hesitate! If she wants to get attached, then keep her around as a f*ck-buddy, but other than that, f*ck her, do what you want, one's virginity is over-rated!
if u bang her, prior to actually doing it u have to be very honest to her and make it clear that u just wanna get laid (not using this words of course), u feel attracted to her but i don't see anything more then the sex itself
if shes ok with that
rip her eyes out and spank that monkey
if shes not
leave her alone
of course), u feel attracted to her but i don't see anything more then the sex itselfif shes ok with that
rip her eyes out and spank that monkey
if shes not
leave her alone
Giuseppe Notte
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Good advice arq-dj1! I agree with you.
Sex for women is a much bigger decision. They are letting you "into" themselves. They don't only need to open up physically, but emotionally as well.
This whole thing is an issue of morals. Do what you feel is the best. Don't listen to us.
No it's not... If you really know women, you also know that they are built this way.
Sex for women is a much bigger decision. They are letting you "into" themselves. They don't only need to open up physically, but emotionally as well.
This whole thing is an issue of morals. Do what you feel is the best. Don't listen to us.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ What about a good 40 - 50% of the girls at my college who would f*** several different guys every couple of months or so? Are they built this way? Is sex really a big decision for them? These chicks have literally been all over the place. I say f*** this virgin but if you harm her emotionally you should take responsibilty for it. Who knows? She might even hit #55 by the time she's ready to get married. But that wouldn't be your problem then.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
WeakMenNeverRise
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It seems like the consensus is that I should bang her. I was thinking about doing that but then the other day she was saying I don't want my first time to be with a condom and then she starts trippin, BIG TIME. She was like, well what would you do if we had sex and I got pregnant. I was like WTF. She said it like she had been thinking about that. A true player, when it comes to females, looks after one person, and thats himself. Weighing the cost and the rewards, puzzy is abundant and I this chick will either go psycho on me or even worse set me up for the okeydoke. Fellas, if you ever in this situation don't do it, it aint worth it. Matter of fact, this is her azz calling me right now for like the 4th time in two days. And she calls from numbers that she thinks I won't recognize. This is gettin rediculous.
what now...
And about her calling all the time etc.... why dont u just go with it, and keep her around as a f*ck-buddy? If you dont want that, then just TELL HER that u are not interested anymore and that she must stop contacting you.
You have to be straight with women sometimes, this being one of those times!
Laterz...
What you need to do is simple... You need to tell her that if she wants to have sex with you, then you WILL wear a condom... and if she has a problem with that, then she can go find some other idiot that would agree to doing something so stupid. Its as simple as that... and if she wants you THAT bad, she will agree to the condom, and your problem will be solved.
And about her calling all the time etc.... why dont u just go with it, and keep her around as a f*ck-buddy?
If you dont want that, then just TELL HER that u are not interested anymore and that she must stop contacting you. You have to be straight with women sometimes, this being one of those times!
Laterz...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.