"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Randallpink83

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I'm not sure why, but I tend to always find an excuse to take pictures of the girls I have slept with.

I think it started because with my ex LTR we got into taking pictures, she was way into it! We've taken literally over a thousand. She loved posing in outfits and doing sets. Or twice I came home from work and she said I left you a surprise on the digi, and when I check it out its like 100 pics of her "enjoying" herself. I feel like a gyno-expert considering most of her shots, lol.

But anyhow since then, If I'm with a girl and back at my house I will usually try and bring out the digi and capture some shots. Even if I don't take them myself I can usually coax the girl into taking pictures for me and sending them or whatever, haha. (even though it seems most girls in this digi/cellpic age have already taken their own photos, cause they are horndogs!)

I dont know, not a big deal... Just wondering if any of you guys do that too.

I'm gonna try and cut the urge lest it freak some of them out, but so far it hasn't. Plus I really have no need for them, I just keep them to myself and never really look at them..... Maybe someday when I'm an old man I will be able to look back and be like "Yeah that was a good time!".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Grizou

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Was shaggin' my sb recently when she suddenly meant "I think we look awesome while having sex, don't cha? We should take some pictures" gnaaa why oh why didn't i have my camera with me then... :(:(
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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deadaim89

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Its all about congruence, if you dont give a **** and wanna take some pictures then you probably wont be questioned. but if you take out a camera and have and doubts in your mind the girl will see that.
 

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I used to do that but stopped when I realized it was pointless to hold onto the past. I'd rather let go and focus on the future.

But I took pictures and video of the first few girls I slept with. Yeah, that kind. But eventually, I saw it as rather AFC and stopped.
 

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I've never really been much for taking pictures of anything (girlfriends, other places I've been lol) but it doesn't really seem like it's AFC behavior if you just usually take a lot of pictures of stuff.

Now if you drink alone on a saturday night while whackin' it to a picture of an ex-girlfriend or something like that, now that would be AFC behavior. :crackup:
 

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randallpink83, so you going to post pixs of your ex girlfriends for the KBJs?
 
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