"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Taking it to the next stage with an acquantaince?

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Known this girl for a few weeks now. Established a good rapport on a trip to London before Christmas, and now shes in my English class. Only one thing holding me back: she is a student teacher! Lol. Im serious about this though, as stupid as it seems, i know i can get her. Any suggestions on how to take it to the next stage, and what you would deem that to be in this situation? Maybe getting her number? Gimme some ideas...cheers guys. A
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thanks, good advice sir, and last Friday we had our first lesson. It started out well, I arrived 'fashionably late', to cause a little more of a stir, there are only four in my English class, and she sat on my side, which is usually occupied only by myself. Anyway the lesson got underway and when the time presented itself i used some C + F, not on her but on some other girls in the class (remember I am the only guy in my college class). I felt this way I wasn't giving her my full attention, but still portraying a confindence with women. When she did a powerpoint presentation, there was some serious eye contact which was sustained. At one point I had my legs crossed and I am sure I felt a leg subtly rub against my shin, although after much debate of whether accidental or not, I thought who cares? She did it. Normally I would have made a C + F comment there, but I felt with my real English teacher present it wouldn't have been the right time. We'll see what happens next Friday, but I'm sure I'll see her before that to blow her over with some more wit and charm!
 
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