"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Taking it to the next stage with an acquantaince?

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Known this girl for a few weeks now. Established a good rapport on a trip to London before Christmas, and now shes in my English class. Only one thing holding me back: she is a student teacher! Lol. Im serious about this though, as stupid as it seems, i know i can get her. Any suggestions on how to take it to the next stage, and what you would deem that to be in this situation? Maybe getting her number? Gimme some ideas...cheers guys. A
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks, good advice sir, and last Friday we had our first lesson. It started out well, I arrived 'fashionably late', to cause a little more of a stir, there are only four in my English class, and she sat on my side, which is usually occupied only by myself. Anyway the lesson got underway and when the time presented itself i used some C + F, not on her but on some other girls in the class (remember I am the only guy in my college class). I felt this way I wasn't giving her my full attention, but still portraying a confindence with women. When she did a powerpoint presentation, there was some serious eye contact which was sustained. At one point I had my legs crossed and I am sure I felt a leg subtly rub against my shin, although after much debate of whether accidental or not, I thought who cares? She did it. Normally I would have made a C + F comment there, but I felt with my real English teacher present it wouldn't have been the right time. We'll see what happens next Friday, but I'm sure I'll see her before that to blow her over with some more wit and charm!
 
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