"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Taking it to the next stage with an acquantaince?

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Known this girl for a few weeks now. Established a good rapport on a trip to London before Christmas, and now shes in my English class. Only one thing holding me back: she is a student teacher! Lol. Im serious about this though, as stupid as it seems, i know i can get her. Any suggestions on how to take it to the next stage, and what you would deem that to be in this situation? Maybe getting her number? Gimme some ideas...cheers guys. A
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thanks, good advice sir, and last Friday we had our first lesson. It started out well, I arrived 'fashionably late', to cause a little more of a stir, there are only four in my English class, and she sat on my side, which is usually occupied only by myself. Anyway the lesson got underway and when the time presented itself i used some C + F, not on her but on some other girls in the class (remember I am the only guy in my college class). I felt this way I wasn't giving her my full attention, but still portraying a confindence with women. When she did a powerpoint presentation, there was some serious eye contact which was sustained. At one point I had my legs crossed and I am sure I felt a leg subtly rub against my shin, although after much debate of whether accidental or not, I thought who cares? She did it. Normally I would have made a C + F comment there, but I felt with my real English teacher present it wouldn't have been the right time. We'll see what happens next Friday, but I'm sure I'll see her before that to blow her over with some more wit and charm!
 
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