"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Theres this girl that I've known through work for about 3 years or so, and recently we've really started to get to know each other a lot better. It turns out we have a lot in common. I like her, and I'm pretty sure she likes me. We've been hanging out every weekend for the past 3 weeks or so, she calles me everyday, and we're sometimes on the phone for 2 hours, and I could definitely see myself dating this person. Now I should probably just make a move and try to kiss her when the time feels right (and there has been a couple of opportunities that I chose not to take advantage of), but I'm curious if that really is the way to go about it. I'm not exactly the most experienced with relationships, so basically I'm just looking for some advice on how to take this from the friend stage to the boyfriend/girlfriend stage, cuase I think we're both ready for it, and I think shes waiting on me to make the move.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You are in the friendzone.

Make yourself less available.
No more phone calls, unless it's to arrange a meeting, in person.
Next time you see her, kiss her. Just do it. DO IT.

You are spending WAY TOO MUCH TIME with this girl. She may think you have nothing better to do. Which is not attractive.
 
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I wouldn't recommend dating some1 who works close to you, All my experiences have been bad when it comes to dating some1 @ work.
 
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Wait, dont' kiss her. This love you experiencing is platonic.


Closing is simple, you meet a girl, you show her that you want to fvck her, you game her, and then you fvck her. If you talk to her for 3 years that shows her you want a friend.


There is no going back, keep her as a friend.


If you want you can confirm this with yourself. Next time you talk to her, come closer, look in her eyes for a few seconds, and ask "Would you like to kiss me?" If she's not sure, say let's find out and kiss her, just a bit on her lips, and no tongue. If she says no then she just gave you a favor by shooting down you twisted AFC reality, just tell her "I didn't say you could hun, I just thought you had something on your mind."


Move on to other women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think this type of Platonic love is best for marriages...

In, this is the only kind of LOVE I know. All other stuff is just lust. The person never becomes special...
 
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Lil bit of an update. About a month or so after I posted this, we kissed. It started with a sweet exhilirating kiss and it turned into a 4 hour make out session. Since then we've hooked up about 6 or 7 times and now we're together, but not officially going out b/c she doesnt want a relationship. However, we still hook up all the time and talk as if we are going out. So we'll see what happens. I'm continuing to play it cool. Thanks for the help guys, but this time it looks like the nice guy isnt gonna finish last.
 
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