"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Taking her to the movies? need advice

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peacefire

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Hey guys Im going to ask a girl out to the movies? what should I be saying in my first phone call?

how should I escalate and makeout with her in the movies?..btw we are going to the New Final destination movie.
amy responsible to buy her movie ticket? or should I ask her? hhow do I ask her?

btw its the first date...should I plan so we go to a coffee shop first and talk...or should we straight go to the theatres??


any advice would be appreciated


thx
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't make it seem like you're planning on making it a date. Try to make it seem like you're just going to be hanging out with her. Don't buy her ticket, you do that stuff when you're already going out with her (of course you don't pay all the time, in fact some of the girls I've dated paid for my ticket and I ended up not returning the favour). And don't feel obligated that you need to make a move on her on the first date. I've never madeout with a girl on the first date (hook ups at parties are an entirely different story), but I did end up making out with them after the first date. Take it smoothly, don't put too much importance in this.
 
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bruv, dont take her to the movies for ur first date.. ur just gna sit there for 2 hours in the dark, not being able to talk, thinking about whether u should go for "the yawn" or not..

take her somewhere were u can do something fun together.. like bowling or mini golf.. gives u more time to talk n tease each other, u needa get her to warm up to you before u start busting moves boy!
 
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nicelife said:
bruv, dont take her to the movies for ur first date.. ur just gna sit there for 2 hours in the dark, not being able to talk, thinking about whether u should go for "the yawn" or not..

take her somewhere were u can do something fun together.. like bowling or mini golf.. gives u more time to talk n tease each other, u needa get her to warm up to you before u start busting moves boy!
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This is what I was gonna say. The more you can talk and build comfort/attraction/use kino/HAVE FUN, the better off you'll be on future dates.
 
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