"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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OK guys, this is going to get a lot of laughs but I have no idea to take a bra off. I mean, I'm sure I could figure it out if I could see what I was doing. But I mean if I stick my hand behind her back, underneath her top and want to take it off, how do I do it? And yes, I am serious :D
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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ok i think what he's trying to ask is how a bra scrap works.

ok what happens is there are two little circle hoops on one side, and two little hooks designed to go into the hoops once attached. To unhook, u get ur thumb and ur index fingers. put them on differentsides of the scrap, bring them together and ta da!

if you are really that stuck, why dont u just get a bra and look at it?
 

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Go to a mall/store and find a place that sells bras. Do your own research....maybe even buy one?..Nobody cares.,really.
 

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First slide the straps off her shoulders, then reach round to the middle of the horizontal strap that goes across her back, find the clasp and just push the two halves of the strap together quickly, and it will come off easily.

But if you don't take the straps off the shoulders, it will be much more difficult.

The main thing to remember is don't struggle. Once you start struggling or try to force it, those buggers get harder and harder to undo, and you just look like a total knob who doesn't know what he's doing. If you're really worried, just slide the shoulder straps off and she'll probably take the hint and do the rest.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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to get it off with one hand (this will take some practice) simply reach around and slide your bird finger under the strap and go across until you feel the clasp. With your thumb and that same bird finger, pinch the clasp and use a snap your fingers motion with the clasp and it should come undone quickly. ;)
 

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Yeah good tips, I'd say if your unsure then take the shoulder straps off and she will usually straight away help with the back (cos its uncomfortable like that I think). Just whatever you do don't get stressed, cos that really will kill the moment.

I know a guy who can undo a bra without a girl even noticing, he just puts an arm round them and ping there it goes, rather like a pickpocket really. If you want to look really good then I'd say learn to do that, in most cases though it really is as simple as carefully pressing the sides together till they release.
 

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It might sound a bit stupid, but if you are worried about trying it without practice, maybe you should invest about 30-40 bucks in a female form (store mannaquin [sic]) and a few bras of different types... ones that clasp in the back, different hooks, ones where it's in the front... practice with one hand on the mannequin until you can get it down pat in one move.. then move to trying it with a shirt over. Never fails to surprise!
 

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Use your teeth = Sexy!!
 

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Originally posted by b's nuts
to get it off with one hand (this will take some practice) simply reach around and slide your bird finger under the strap and go across until you feel the clasp. With your thumb and that same bird finger, pinch the clasp and use a snap your fingers motion with the clasp and it should come undone quickly. ;)
I love the single handed bra removal technique, if you pull it off, its slick... and when you get good you can even undo it on command ;).
 
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